oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
how do i handle this? This is the only problem i have, especially with hanging out with girls for the first time...holler.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ASD & Last minute resistence...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Keep pushing forward? Don't remember who it was that said "make the ho say no", but that's the idea. Just be up front with your intentions and don't worry so much about the outcome. Women are submissive, more often than not they'll give in.
Be more specific.
Be more specific.
When she resists, just stop, wait a while and start where you left off. Eventually, she will give in if you have the patience.
Its a ritual that most level headed and mature women know as they dont want to be viewed as a slut even if they truly are one.
Its a ritual that most level headed and mature women know as they dont want to be viewed as a slut even if they truly are one.
Gunwitch was the one who came up w/ Make the Ho Say No, and there was a lot of other quality stuff about getting over ASD/LMR in the Gunwitch Method.
Basically, everything the last two guys said is correct.
There's another phrase somewhere in the Bible, where the guy said, "make all of your moves when she's on a high." Which is true in every realm of DJing, but especially when it comes to the sexual situations...wait till she's totally horny and in the zone, really getting into it, and then escalate...later, after you've had wild animal sex, she can tell herself, "I'm not a slut, I'm a good girl. I just got carried away."
Basically, everything the last two guys said is correct.
There's another phrase somewhere in the Bible, where the guy said, "make all of your moves when she's on a high." Which is true in every realm of DJing, but especially when it comes to the sexual situations...wait till she's totally horny and in the zone, really getting into it, and then escalate...later, after you've had wild animal sex, she can tell herself, "I'm not a slut, I'm a good girl. I just got carried away."
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
David D says to make every move on a high note... and this is perfectly true, except it's onle accurate to a point, because you are usually in more a 'foreplay' state when the ASD comes up rather than a 'flirting' state when making your moves on a high note is to bring her to a 'foreplay' state.
The most appropriate quote on this comes from 'The Tao of Steve' movie where the main character talks about timelines :
"A guy's ready for sex in 5 minutes, and a woman takes 10 min before she's ready, so what you gotta do is hold out for 15 minutes and SHE'LL BE CHASING YOU FOR 5.'
What I do is just agree with her and take a step or 2 back, but then let things get heated back up again, except minues a piece of mine or her clothing. A good rule of thumb is : If the woman takes off any of YOUR clothes, she's about ready for you to stick it in.
The most appropriate quote on this comes from 'The Tao of Steve' movie where the main character talks about timelines :
"A guy's ready for sex in 5 minutes, and a woman takes 10 min before she's ready, so what you gotta do is hold out for 15 minutes and SHE'LL BE CHASING YOU FOR 5.'
What I do is just agree with her and take a step or 2 back, but then let things get heated back up again, except minues a piece of mine or her clothing. A good rule of thumb is : If the woman takes off any of YOUR clothes, she's about ready for you to stick it in.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
flows101
Don Juan
Agree with her but carry on doing what you’re doing.
HB: we shouldn’t be doing this
Don Juan: yeah I know we should absolutely stop right now (but carries on going)
If the LMR is tuff do a freeze out just STOP everything say “ok” (don’t be mad) and get up and do something else read a book or what ever she’ll come back and want to cuddle with you.
Repeat process as many time as you need to.
HB: we shouldn’t be doing this
Don Juan: yeah I know we should absolutely stop right now (but carries on going)
If the LMR is tuff do a freeze out just STOP everything say “ok” (don’t be mad) and get up and do something else read a book or what ever she’ll come back and want to cuddle with you.
Repeat process as many time as you need to.