oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
how do i handle this? This is the only problem i have, especially with hanging out with girls for the first time...holler.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ASD & Last minute resistence...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Keep pushing forward? Don't remember who it was that said "make the ho say no", but that's the idea. Just be up front with your intentions and don't worry so much about the outcome. Women are submissive, more often than not they'll give in.
Be more specific.
Be more specific.
When she resists, just stop, wait a while and start where you left off. Eventually, she will give in if you have the patience.
Its a ritual that most level headed and mature women know as they dont want to be viewed as a slut even if they truly are one.
Its a ritual that most level headed and mature women know as they dont want to be viewed as a slut even if they truly are one.
Gunwitch was the one who came up w/ Make the Ho Say No, and there was a lot of other quality stuff about getting over ASD/LMR in the Gunwitch Method.
Basically, everything the last two guys said is correct.
There's another phrase somewhere in the Bible, where the guy said, "make all of your moves when she's on a high." Which is true in every realm of DJing, but especially when it comes to the sexual situations...wait till she's totally horny and in the zone, really getting into it, and then escalate...later, after you've had wild animal sex, she can tell herself, "I'm not a slut, I'm a good girl. I just got carried away."
Basically, everything the last two guys said is correct.
There's another phrase somewhere in the Bible, where the guy said, "make all of your moves when she's on a high." Which is true in every realm of DJing, but especially when it comes to the sexual situations...wait till she's totally horny and in the zone, really getting into it, and then escalate...later, after you've had wild animal sex, she can tell herself, "I'm not a slut, I'm a good girl. I just got carried away."
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
David D says to make every move on a high note... and this is perfectly true, except it's onle accurate to a point, because you are usually in more a 'foreplay' state when the ASD comes up rather than a 'flirting' state when making your moves on a high note is to bring her to a 'foreplay' state.
The most appropriate quote on this comes from 'The Tao of Steve' movie where the main character talks about timelines :
"A guy's ready for sex in 5 minutes, and a woman takes 10 min before she's ready, so what you gotta do is hold out for 15 minutes and SHE'LL BE CHASING YOU FOR 5.'
What I do is just agree with her and take a step or 2 back, but then let things get heated back up again, except minues a piece of mine or her clothing. A good rule of thumb is : If the woman takes off any of YOUR clothes, she's about ready for you to stick it in.
The most appropriate quote on this comes from 'The Tao of Steve' movie where the main character talks about timelines :
"A guy's ready for sex in 5 minutes, and a woman takes 10 min before she's ready, so what you gotta do is hold out for 15 minutes and SHE'LL BE CHASING YOU FOR 5.'
What I do is just agree with her and take a step or 2 back, but then let things get heated back up again, except minues a piece of mine or her clothing. A good rule of thumb is : If the woman takes off any of YOUR clothes, she's about ready for you to stick it in.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
flows101
Don Juan
Agree with her but carry on doing what you’re doing.
HB: we shouldn’t be doing this
Don Juan: yeah I know we should absolutely stop right now (but carries on going)
If the LMR is tuff do a freeze out just STOP everything say “ok” (don’t be mad) and get up and do something else read a book or what ever she’ll come back and want to cuddle with you.
Repeat process as many time as you need to.
HB: we shouldn’t be doing this
Don Juan: yeah I know we should absolutely stop right now (but carries on going)
If the LMR is tuff do a freeze out just STOP everything say “ok” (don’t be mad) and get up and do something else read a book or what ever she’ll come back and want to cuddle with you.
Repeat process as many time as you need to.