Can I get suggestions on how to counter anti-slut defense? Someone used this term in one of the threads that I started but didn't mention how to combat this? I didn't see that term used in the bible either. I'm going up against major ASD right now. Any suggestions are welcome.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ASD - How do you counter?
- Thread starter ematsuda
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I already had sex with this one, but she thinks I'm only using her. I am. But now I like her but still only want to be around her for sex. I know - ONEitis. She won't let me get her alone anymore. She'll only meet up with me when I'm already out and makes sure she has something planned to do later. So I stopped calling her - it's been 2 days. Eventually she'll call though, she always does when I withdraw, just to make sure she still has my attention. This time SHE'S going to get the "cold shoulder" though. Frickin' games man! FVCKIN' BRING IT!
Don't say NEXT... I already have a date with another chick tonight. But only in effort to forget this chick.
Don't say NEXT... I already have a date with another chick tonight. But only in effort to forget this chick.
What's your problem here bro?Originally posted by ematsuda
I already had sex with this one, but she thinks I'm only using her. I am. But now I like her but still only want to be around her for sex. I know - ONEitis. She won't let me get her alone anymore. She'll only meet up with me when I'm already out and makes sure she has something planned to do later. So I stopped calling her - it's been 2 days. Eventually she'll call though, she always does when I withdraw, just to make sure she still has my attention. This time SHE'S going to get the "cold shoulder" though. Frickin' games man! FVCKIN' BRING IT!
Don't say NEXT... I already have a date with another chick tonight. But only in effort to forget this chick.
OK. it's hard for you to isolate her...
You've been trying to get her to isolated place straight inviting them there?
That's a thing that usually doesn't work.
You have to give her excuse to come.
That's not the case though.. since she feel's you are using her.
They always see it, don't they?
I think it's time for some romance if you want sex with her again. Couple of dates non related to sex.
You've already acted right here, you have another date coming up.
There's nothing wrong trying to warm up a girl by going dates with no sex in mind.
As long as she isn't the only chick.
It's important to have other dates if you just want sex from this girl. Otherwise it's a waste of time.
I was kinda hoping you wouldn't say that - but I have trouble doing that because she gets real sexual with me. She has this look that she gives me (you know the one) - F' me look. She does it really, really, really well.I think it's time for some romance if you want sex with her again. Couple of dates non related to sex.
Another thing wrong is that I'm getting too attached to her. Whenever she calls me to see what I'm doing, I invite her and she comes. I'm stopping that too.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
isolation...
light alcoholic beverage which gives her: "i was drunk excuse"...
if you came onto her, got her undressed but she's still hesitant. You can back off and do the same thing on the next date. The ASD will be gone.
If that doesn't elliminate the ASD, consult a psychoanalytic. Each case is different, reasons are countless...
light alcoholic beverage which gives her: "i was drunk excuse"...
if you came onto her, got her undressed but she's still hesitant. You can back off and do the same thing on the next date. The ASD will be gone.
If that doesn't elliminate the ASD, consult a psychoanalytic. Each case is different, reasons are countless...