"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are there any good ones on the site.. Or anyone have any sure fire signs, aside from the double glance and smiling?
Or is 1 glance enough(i think not, b/c sometimes you check out a broad once, and think she's not as hot as first noticed).

And for crying out LOUD WHAT IS WITH THE HAIR FLIP.. is that good or bad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by WestCoast1492
Are there any good ones on the site.. Or anyone have any sure fire signs, aside from the double glance and smiling?
Or is 1 glance enough(i think not, b/c sometimes you check out a broad once, and think she's not as hot as first noticed).

And for crying out LOUD WHAT IS WITH THE HAIR FLIP.. is that good or bad.
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Well....you'll never really know until you go up and talk to her because all of the things u mentioned really don't mean anything (not solid proof that they are interested) u will get your answer if u go over and talk to her.
 
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If you see a glance, wave, if she waves back, go for it.
 
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just search for 'body language' practice

body language follows a state of mind, walk like you were a god(as is posted on this site) and carry yourself with pride(shame is a sin;))
 
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Observation

If you're spending all your mental energy trying to interpute her posture, hand gestures, etc, I think you're extremely likely to come across as confused and out of touch.


Just approach any woman you have the remotest interest in. Stop trying to analyze every movement she makes.

I find women often play with their hair when they want to be noticed or when they are feeling sexy. I believe this is a positive thing based on personal observation.

Books will tell you below. I don't pay any attention to this crap, but it might be true for all I know.

Positive, truthful:
Hands open
Palms facing up
unbuttoning clothing (ha ha)
Head tilted, not straight up

Negative:
Touching Nose, esp with eyes open
Crossed arms with closed fist
Head completely upright
Falls asleep while you're talking about sex
Quickly mentions she is bleeding when you bring up sex
Kicks you in the jackpot
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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forgot where i read this one trick. look at her and when your eyes meet hers, look down at your watch like your in a hurry. count to 3 and then look back up. people tend to mirror other people and if you catch her looking at her watch after the 3 seconds, thats a good sign.

general stuff =
bad- arms crossed, legs crossed(no sex for you), leaning away from you. just about any type of closed body language

good- open body language, wrist is exposed, if the legs are crossed but pointing in your direction, open arms, playing with her hair or anything shes wearing, fixing her hair and other stuff(shes making her self look better for you) pupils dialated, licking her lips(not you licking her lips =P), leaning towards you, shoulders pointed in your direction

theres a book out by allan pease or something i believe. its a PDF so you should be able to find it online(it WONT be avalible on ***** or limewire, so dont check there please!:woo: `.` *rolls eyes*)

people tend to touch the area around their mouth when they lie. when we were kids and we lied, we subconsciously covered out mouth after the lie. as you get older, its less obvious. adults are more discret with this, when they lie, they will bring their hand up, but instead of covering their mouth, they just rub it against their nose.
 
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