"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WestCoast1492

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Are there any good ones on the site.. Or anyone have any sure fire signs, aside from the double glance and smiling?
Or is 1 glance enough(i think not, b/c sometimes you check out a broad once, and think she's not as hot as first noticed).

And for crying out LOUD WHAT IS WITH THE HAIR FLIP.. is that good or bad.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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white cloud 8

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Originally posted by WestCoast1492
Are there any good ones on the site.. Or anyone have any sure fire signs, aside from the double glance and smiling?
Or is 1 glance enough(i think not, b/c sometimes you check out a broad once, and think she's not as hot as first noticed).

And for crying out LOUD WHAT IS WITH THE HAIR FLIP.. is that good or bad.
Well....you'll never really know until you go up and talk to her because all of the things u mentioned really don't mean anything (not solid proof that they are interested) u will get your answer if u go over and talk to her.
 

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If you see a glance, wave, if she waves back, go for it.
 

Boner da Stoner

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just search for 'body language' practice

body language follows a state of mind, walk like you were a god(as is posted on this site) and carry yourself with pride(shame is a sin;))
 

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Observation

If you're spending all your mental energy trying to interpute her posture, hand gestures, etc, I think you're extremely likely to come across as confused and out of touch.


Just approach any woman you have the remotest interest in. Stop trying to analyze every movement she makes.

I find women often play with their hair when they want to be noticed or when they are feeling sexy. I believe this is a positive thing based on personal observation.

Books will tell you below. I don't pay any attention to this crap, but it might be true for all I know.

Positive, truthful:
Hands open
Palms facing up
unbuttoning clothing (ha ha)
Head tilted, not straight up

Negative:
Touching Nose, esp with eyes open
Crossed arms with closed fist
Head completely upright
Falls asleep while you're talking about sex
Quickly mentions she is bleeding when you bring up sex
Kicks you in the jackpot
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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forgot where i read this one trick. look at her and when your eyes meet hers, look down at your watch like your in a hurry. count to 3 and then look back up. people tend to mirror other people and if you catch her looking at her watch after the 3 seconds, thats a good sign.

general stuff =
bad- arms crossed, legs crossed(no sex for you), leaning away from you. just about any type of closed body language

good- open body language, wrist is exposed, if the legs are crossed but pointing in your direction, open arms, playing with her hair or anything shes wearing, fixing her hair and other stuff(shes making her self look better for you) pupils dialated, licking her lips(not you licking her lips =P), leaning towards you, shoulders pointed in your direction

theres a book out by allan pease or something i believe. its a PDF so you should be able to find it online(it WONT be avalible on ***** or limewire, so dont check there please!:woo: `.` *rolls eyes*)

people tend to touch the area around their mouth when they lie. when we were kids and we lied, we subconsciously covered out mouth after the lie. as you get older, its less obvious. adults are more discret with this, when they lie, they will bring their hand up, but instead of covering their mouth, they just rub it against their nose.
 
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