"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Article: Why Women Date Jerks

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Speaking in very, very broad general strokes, I think it goes something like this:

The narcissistic jerky guys are more aggressive, so they approach and ask the girls out more often and more quickly than the other males. So the woman, who is basically passive and waiting to be approached, goes out with this jerk guy. They then have sex.

Women tend to get attached to guys they have sex with, so they start to get dreamy/delusional about what the jerk can bring to the table. And of course a lot of this is the result of hormones.

Also, maybe the guy is more likely to be narcissistic if he's a very good looking guy, or a dominant muscular type. I know some naturally big, muscular guys and their manners are not the best. I think a lot of this is because people are too intimidated to call them on it, so they get away with more.
 

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There's some vampire movie, I think it was Blade, and there's a line: "The thirst always wins".
I say the same thing about chicks. If they're ovulating or just horny, they will basically fvck the nearest decent looking thing with a d1ck.

It's almost like they're predators such is their aggression in pursuit of a good ramming. I've been with plenty of "good girls" who become c0ck-hungry *** junkies when their hormones kick in each month.
 

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women generally are not good decision makers. they also LIKE to complain and associate themselves with drama (despite what they say). what good stories would they have to tell everyone about some great guy theyre dating? none. it's more fun to tell stories about how they dated a jerk and were treated bad, play the victim card and have you pitty them.
 

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Yet another "not my fault!" victim-card excuse for women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Desdinova said:
We've known why ever since we joined this forum. However, there's a study that had come up with different reasons:

http://gizmodo.com/5910421/why-women-date-*******s#13371684050203

So, a woman's ovulation is to blame for overriding her logical decision to choose the nice guy over the jerk? I don't buy it.

Watch Science of Sex Appeal on Netflix. Lots of changes happen to women when they ovulate, so it's not surprising that their behavior could be affected as well--love and lust are all about brain chemistry.
 

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Does it takes an other confirmation to the fact that women should be checked twice before granted jobs who decide the fate of other people?
Do you want your life or your family ones dependant on the amount of a certain hormone in the blood of a policewoman or woman politician, keeping in mind it chances in weeks?


1st of march "lets find an agreement and lets talk about it and the UN"
30th of march "ahhhh bomb them, bomb them, bomb them all go nuclear"


And they call you sexist or insecure if you would rather not have a woman as boss at work...
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Does it takes an other confirmation to the fact that women should be checked twice before granted jobs who decide the fate of other people?
Do you want your life or your family ones dependant on the amount of a certain hormone in the blood of a policewoman or woman politician, keeping in mind it chances in weeks?


1st of march "lets find an agreement and lets talk about it and the UN"
30th of march "ahhhh bomb them, bomb them, bomb them all go nuclear"


And they call you sexist or insecure if you would rather not have a woman as boss at work...
I think a man should be able to have a successful career whether his boss is a man or a woman, but that's just me. You seldom hear in the news of women in positions of power having major scandals. Personally, I prefer to work with women than men. Sometimes, I'm the only man in the meeting. I like it that way. And none of this has hindered my career one bit. To each his own, I guess.
 

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bmp2cpm said:
I think a man should be able to have a successful career whether his boss is a man or a woman, but that's just me. You seldom hear in the news of women in positions of power having major scandals. Personally, I prefer to work with women than men. Sometimes, I'm the only man in the meeting. I like it that way. And none of this has hindered my career one bit. To each his own, I guess.
funny cause everytime i turn on my tv there's some woman teacher that banged a middle schooler. color me jealous because i would have LOVED for any of my hot teachers to want to bang, but somehow i was taught by the few hot one's with morals:mad:
 

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Jitterbug said:
Yet another "not my fault!" victim-card excuse for women.
This^^^^

Mrs.5string married 2 jerks before me. Both were certified a$$holes. Neither one graduated from HS and to this day, both are chumps who live in poverty. They both look like sh!t and are circeling the drain. I can't help but wonder what she was thinking.

Oh well, nobody truly understands the hamster so I don't even try to figure it out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If they only picked bad boys a few days per month, they would still be F-ing nice guys the rest of the time. We know that's often not the case.

Plus the theories surrounding ovulation fall apart as most women are on the pill anyway. Even on the pill when their body is tricked into thinking it's pregnant and she should be drawn to nice guys according to theory, she will still dates bad boys.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that while biology might be a factor, there must be some non-nature stuff going on too.

I like Zekko's explanation.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
There's some vampire movie, I think it was Blade, and there's a line: "The thirst always wins".
I say the same thing about chicks. If they're ovulating or just horny, they will basically fvck the nearest decent looking thing with a d1ck.

It's almost like they're predators such is their aggression in pursuit of a good ramming. I've been with plenty of "good girls" who become c0ck-hungry *** junkies when their hormones kick in each month.

If that's not a great name for a porno, I don't know what is. I'm going to begin writing that script immediately.
 
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