MatureDJ
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
lol the author acts like guys are just screwing themselves. it takes 2 to tango.Men are more distant from a family or their children then they have ever been. The out-of-wedlock birthrate is more than 40% in America.
because we have access to more information and are better equipped to make decisions on what we do and do not believe, our lives extend further now then the church down the street.In 2010, that share had risen to 27%. Men are also less religious than ever before.
who gives a **** about the numbers. i would not care if they were 90%,morality does not come from religion. that has been proven time and time again. Even so, how do you account for the immoral women out there?\If you don't believe the numbers, just ask young women about men today
what about the 26 year old girl who "kicks it" every night and can't hold a job.You will find them talking about prolonged adolescence and men who refuse to grow up
they are the guys that are giving you rides to the party that you are about to become the opening act to, and pck you up when you are done only for you for you to ignore them then cry and ***** 10 years late rwhen that exact same guy or guys like him aren't in the least bit interested in him, "Where are the decent single men?" There is a maturity deficit among men out there, and men are falling behind.
I take it you have not played the new Battlefield 3. **** is off the chain., "Where are the decent single men?" There is a maturity deficit among men out there, and men are falling behind.
This, i actually do agree with? Increasingly, the messages to boys about what it means to be a man are confusing.
lol he said swaggerThe machismo of the street gang calls out with a swagger
and songs like "I need a solider" and watching TV shows like "sex in the city" really do paint an oppropate view of what it is to be a womanr. Video games, television and music offer dubious lessons to boys who have been abandoned by their fathers.
I can agree with this to a certian extent. The problem however, is that this, has nothing to do with the article. it's just a factoid about something thrown smack dab into the middle of something else to give it credence. You have women having sex at 14-15 years old, going around wearing the skankist **** on the face of the earth, last week Norte Dame' QB, his sister got arrested at teh game, and it came out that she basically screwed everyone in the local fertarnity at her brothers house, then when they wouldn't call her back, because she is well, a *****, texted them and said "you don't sleep with Reeses sister and not text back!". yes that's very lady like behavior.For boys to become men, they need to be guided through advice, habit, instruction, example and correction. It is true in all ages.
ahhh classy.backbreaker said:ears old, going around wearing the skankist **** on the face of the earth, last week Norte Dame' QB, his sister got arrested at teh game, and it came out that she basically screwed everyone in the local fertarnity at her brothers house, then when they wouldn't call her back, because she is well, a *****, texted them and said "you don't sleep with Reeses sister and not text back!". yes that's very lady like behavior.
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
excellent. well said.backbreaker said:At the end, it never was about you. It was about the money. you were a means to an end "(her getting high). For alot of women, men are a means to an end of them living alife that society tells them that they should live. That doesn't means she necessarily likes you or gives a damn about you just because she marries you. When that's the case you can do "what's right" until you are blue in the face and you will end up just another broke ass guy with nothing.
Guys need to realize, that if you get with the wrong woman and you don't screen her, it's not about you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Scaramouche said:Dear Penkitten,
I agree with your post....in custody matters things are definitely improving.....I remember thirty years ago fighting for access to my kids..it was so Partisan in the Family Court that on the notice board in the waiting room was a magnified headline and photo copy that read Men you are wasting your time trying to get custody....the article went on to discuss 10,000 custody cases where male success rate was about 3%...It got worse..the chit of a girl sitting at the appointment desk came over carrying a file Ms ....will see you now....as we walked down the corridor she starts berating me...you don't deserve custody,you let your children starve when you last had custody and took them to Sydney...I was so dumbfounded that I couldn't think of what to say...then followed a terrible half hour of inquisition...I lost my temper,I told the Satans bride conducting this charade what I thought of her and her Court...Stormed out of the office...The Secretary called out as I walked past Mr.....there is some paperwork to do....I walked over to her,Fvuck you and fvuck your paperwork,I Wiped her desk clean with my arm,throwing everything on the floor...she pushes an alarm bell...people came from every where,I was restrained,taken away in the Paddy Wagon....Put in the Cells...The Sargeant took me for an interview,he was a veteran too...very nice sympathetic,seems many of his guys had been put through the cleaners too...One Gendarme walked past me....Good onyer mate he said,pity you didn't have a gun...they let me out and I never heard anything more.
Again, I guess I don't understand this attitude. Who, exactly is "damning you?" You are a loser to whom? Who specifically says it's your fault?you know what's really fvcked up? It's that you are damned if you do and damned if you don't.
In other words, IT'S NEVER her fault. If you don't "man up" and get married, then you are a loser.
if you subscribe to some selfless sense of rightnessess, and get married, she falls out of love or gains weight or cheats on you, somehow, it's still your fault.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.