MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
article: Why I took my wife’s last name
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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1)if something make you seems "less of a man" its probably because it does.
2)your frame is weak enough by getting married in current day western world as a man, by that you shortcutted the inevitable result
3)yeah yeah we know, what your mates think doesnt matter to you cause you are not insecure about you manliness and so on.
4)when she will drop you and pay her monthly, will you be allowed to at least keep her name?
ps. a woman taking her husbands name is like ownership so its bad, the other way around is good (says the cuck).
2)your frame is weak enough by getting married in current day western world as a man, by that you shortcutted the inevitable result
3)yeah yeah we know, what your mates think doesnt matter to you cause you are not insecure about you manliness and so on.
4)when she will drop you and pay her monthly, will you be allowed to at least keep her name?
ps. a woman taking her husbands name is like ownership so its bad, the other way around is good (says the cuck).
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Honestly, I think it’s a matter of pride. The 2 have known each other and been dating for over 10 years, since they were still teenagers, so their relationship is probably pretty stable if you ask me. Of course I can’t know for certain because it may have been an on/off type of thing throughout those 10 years and obviously media outlets exaggerate the **** out of everything so they might be leaving that out. Plus, she might have been wanting him to do it anyway because he said he was thinking about it for months. How does it take that long to decide something like that? That indecisiveness is a bigger indicator of a lack of masculinity than the name change ever will be.
In reality, I think it’s an issue of pride. Dude said he wasn’t close to his family, so he doesn’t care about losing his name, and it’s implied that he has at least one brother (but they could have just left that part out too, who knows). I do appreciate the fact that he respected her father’s pride though, because he said it meant a lot to him. I think it only meant a lot to the girl BECAUSE it meant a lot to her dad, but that’s just speculation. For me personally, I’m not changing my name. There’s a history behind it. A good one too. A strong one. And you can trace it back to some very important people in my lineage. I hold pride in that. The other dude apparently doesn’t, most people aren’t proud of anything anyways (just massive entitlement really).
There’s more to the story than we will know. It’s important to remember that media outlets, especially ones like these, are especially keen on leaving certain details out in order to present to you a certain story with only one interpretation of it. They all have an agenda to push forward. You gotta know how to analyze this stuff.
In reality, I think it’s an issue of pride. Dude said he wasn’t close to his family, so he doesn’t care about losing his name, and it’s implied that he has at least one brother (but they could have just left that part out too, who knows). I do appreciate the fact that he respected her father’s pride though, because he said it meant a lot to him. I think it only meant a lot to the girl BECAUSE it meant a lot to her dad, but that’s just speculation. For me personally, I’m not changing my name. There’s a history behind it. A good one too. A strong one. And you can trace it back to some very important people in my lineage. I hold pride in that. The other dude apparently doesn’t, most people aren’t proud of anything anyways (just massive entitlement really).
There’s more to the story than we will know. It’s important to remember that media outlets, especially ones like these, are especially keen on leaving certain details out in order to present to you a certain story with only one interpretation of it. They all have an agenda to push forward. You gotta know how to analyze this stuff.
RickTheToad
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I've actually been reading about this too. It's a feminism thing. Even Nikki Cox's hubby, Jay Mohr did this after they got married. Ten years later, he's filed for divorce twice and said she's crazy. Yet, they are working through their issues.
Did these men have their balls removed or something?
Did these men have their balls removed or something?
mrgoodstuff
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Their actions discarded their balls. I'm sure there were plenty of actions within those relationships that they were asked to take that removed them even further.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
marmel75
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These type of women seek out men with no balls so they can do whatever they want and control them
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Sometimes men can be too stupid to realize they are handing their balls away.
The women also can be decieving, hooking you on feminine treatment and lots of sex and drawing it back after the man is hooked.
He will get stuck in a cycle of waiting on the good times.
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