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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
article: Why Don’t Some Men Commit? Too Many Digital Options
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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The article was written four years ago.
The same could be said for an average to attractive woman. I would say now there are more social and OLD apps than ever before.
More volume = more options = less commitment
A few months back I could remember spotting one woman with near identical pictures in a different sorted order on at least three different OLD apps. Just imagine how many messages she has waiting for her and the “chore” it must be to filter the less attractive options.
When the inbox is full, DMs and texts are blowing up, they get more increasingly selective, hot/cold to lukewarm IL or will withdraw attention altogether or flake if they acquired a better option.
We live in noncommittal times, which ofc is good for the DJ who’s got game.
The same could be said for an average to attractive woman. I would say now there are more social and OLD apps than ever before.
More volume = more options = less commitment
A few months back I could remember spotting one woman with near identical pictures in a different sorted order on at least three different OLD apps. Just imagine how many messages she has waiting for her and the “chore” it must be to filter the less attractive options.
When the inbox is full, DMs and texts are blowing up, they get more increasingly selective, hot/cold to lukewarm IL or will withdraw attention altogether or flake if they acquired a better option.
We live in noncommittal times, which ofc is good for the DJ who’s got game.