article: What Happens When the Woman Wants Sex Way More Than the Man?

[MatureDJ]

http://www.alternet.org/sex/152805/..._unfair_sex_stereotypes_strain_relationships/

I have a hunch that young women who have trouble getting men interested in sex must just be ugly. I just can't fathom a decently attractive young woman not having any interested beaus. As for the sex starved middle aged housewife, in all likelihood she has developed a matronly physique. Most men do not want to nail a butterball.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear MDJ,
I think your take on this a trifle hasty....Bettina Arndt in her book Sex Diaries,records that in relationships with skewed sexual desire,7% were with Ladies who found their Men were not up to it...
One of my Plates some time ago,in across the pillow conversation told of a live in lover who never had much interest,needing it initially say once monthly this declining to once every two months...The Lady was hot potatoes,lovely slim figure,mango size breasts,athletic legs,do anything you want...she would need it at least on a weekly basis...The guy survived because he was an amazing Dancer.

 

[vatoloco]

...a live in lover who never had much interest,needing it initially say once monthly this declining to once every two months... he was an amazing Dancer.

He was gay.

 

[Warrior74]

Dear MDJ,
I think your take on this a trifle hasty....Bettina Arndt in her book Sex Diaries,records that in relationships with skewed sexual desire,7% were with Ladies who found their Men were not up to it...
One of my Plates some time ago,in across the pillow conversation told of a live in lover who never had much interest,needing it initially say once monthly this declining to once every two months...The Lady was hot potatoes,lovely slim figure,mango size breasts,athletic legs,do anything you want...she would need it at least on a weekly basis...The guy survived because he was an amazing Dancer.

I knew a girl like this, met her on a dating site, she said her and her ex boyfriend had sex twice a year. Tightest piece I've ever had. Turns out she used me for sex for a couple of months, dropped the bombshell that she was seeing someone else and he came running back. I learned later that this was their pattern. Last time I saw her, they had gotten married and he adopted her kid and they hadn't had sex in 4 months. Bunch of morons the lot of them.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Warrior,
Boy but you have lived....Seriously she has the makings of a Super Dooper Plate...Just for a laugh,give her a ring and see what her reaction is,I am genuinely curious.

 

[Warrior74]

Dear Warrior,
Boy but you have lived....Seriously she has the makings of a Super Dooper Plate...Just for a laugh,give her a ring and see what her reaction is,I am genuinely curious.

Um no, I stole bunch of her sci fi dvds the last time I saw her, she doesn't think to kindly of me. But Akira, Fantastic Planet, Dark City, Forbidden Planet and Blade Runner Directors Cut and some tight poon? Worth it. She was one of those nerdy chics with a nice body which was fun, but even if I had her number, I don't do married chics.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

She wants more sex than me? I would like to have this problem myself!

Maybe she'll have more money too -- that would be nice

A friend of mine had this situation (was with a nympho..couldn't keep up)...seemed like shoes I wouldn't mind being in -- at least for awhile!

 

[englishman]

I've had a few girls where it was like that. Last one was few years back and she was only 23, was hard to keep up, I'm getting up there in years and I work heavy construction, ahhh to be 18 again! :flowers:
Other was this sex crazed broad I knew who seemed to want to fvck everybody including my friends!
And another was one that I married way ago, come to think of it she wanted to fvck everyone too!
maybe their best steered clear of?

 

[Huffman]

That's what happens if you settle for a girl that you're not really attracted to.

I've been seeing a girl right now who is nice and pretty and everything, but somehow she's not very sexy to me. I'll have to dump her.

 

[EvilAgenda]

In another experiment, a bull was put in a barn of 1,000 cows. The bull never mounted the same cow twice.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Maybe our society would be better if we learned from the eskimos or lots of other cultures where women are shared...wives are shared...at least in those societies the context is that men need women, we share what we have, we all care about each other -- there is such a greed that perhaps we in our western world take in our attitude towards everything -- we own another human mentally and sexually in a sense, anyone who touches our prize is damned. But there are real things like trust, and many of us do feel that is important -- I have thought that I could at times be open to polygamy, or having multiple women and letting go of any of my judgement on their choices...just invite them in when they desire to be with me...and let them free into the world with no expectations...but there is this underlying thinking of (a) disease and (b) trust, and maybe there is jealousy or possessiveness at the root of it...

But it does seem hard to be totally OK with a chick banging other dudes...even if we're "open" about it...I'm not sure mentally, at least in this society, as my acculturation has led me these 27 years, to be OK with that...there is a certain level of mental intimacy that I value in monogamy...a genuine care that I do value...that open-ended sex with others would seem to immediately take away from...

All that being said: I would enjoy being with a woman with a strong sexual drive...seems like I've been with some loons in the past..I'm ready for a chick who is crazy about me...but not crazy in the head...is such a thing possible?