article: Want to Know What Women Want? Ask Them About Their Affairs

[MatureDJ]

https://www.lennyletter.com/story/want-to-know-what-women-want-ask-them-about-their-affairs

When I inquire as to why, she tells me that in the last year, she has lost interest in sex. "I used to be so into Steve," she says. "And I was often the one who'd jump on him when he came through the door. But then it just became such an effort, I couldn't muster it up. It really freaked me out. I'd do it because he wanted to, and sometimes I'd get into it, but mostly I felt numb. I reached out to my old flame to find out if I had really lost that part of myself."

I can't tell you how many desperate husbands have shown up in my office with a reluctant wife in tow, telling me that they are tired of the nightly rejections. "She's obsessed with the kids," they tell me. "She's tired every night. No matter how much I try to help out around the house or encourage her to take a break, I can't get lucky. She's just not interested in sex anymore."

The unspoken truth about women's sexuality is how narcissistic it is.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

https://www.lennyletter.com/story/want-to-know-what-women-want-ask-them-about-their-affairs

If the husband was on the yi

https://www.lennyletter.com/story/want-to-know-what-women-want-ask-them-about-their-affairs

What do you mean their sexuality is "narcissistic"?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

They want what they don't have. A husband or a man to take care of them and flings with anyone but.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I notice with Each sexual encounter with most women, the 1st is the best, the 2nd eh pretty good too, the 3rd she's less attractive (I know her body real well now), the 4th she's trying different things and maybe it's daytime and we should have just not done anything till later (several unknown factors make it a dud). So your texting with her may be getting more sparse (like I'm experiencing this week with one - of course, I'm 15 years older than she is but her previous boyfriend was 21 years older - she said something about how (can't remember the word so I'll insert) amazing it was with him (he has the same first name as me and is an owner of an insurance agency 7 employees; I'm blue colla but I wouldn't want his job having to "be nice" to customers All the time and be fake, wear a tie/suit etc etc - I prefer REAL people to deal with daily, the idiots, I'm not there for long to talk to them). Anyway, I will see whether she'll be able to make another go of it 2 days from now. I told her I couldn't make a festival next weekend (she likes going to all these concerts and festivals etc, she holds my hand all the time to and fro the car etc). She seemed unhappy last time before I left her because I told her why I "throw up blocks" to her (ploys for more commitment). Quite frankly, I still don't trust her cause she is "out there" and while I've never caught her in a lie, much of the stuff she believe I figure to be either a lie or way off base (about aliens, new age sh!t - which she says is not what she believes but I said it's close to what she believes and she wants to start a "dating site" to help people who think like she does and I'm like uh, there's very few who think like you do - she wants to charge $10 a month I'm like there's too much competition. She met her previous boyfriend on Zoosk which has facial recognition you pay for said she could use that feature in her site. I'm No, no, no, no.

If she can't go out in 2 days (she never can Sunday) then I have another better body/face that I will hit up.

 

[MatureDJ]

If the husband was on the yi
What do you mean their sexuality is "narcissistic"?

That was a quote from the article, not from me.

 

[zekko]

I notice with Each sexual encounter with most women, the 1st is the best, the 2nd eh pretty good too, the 3rd she's less attractive (I know her body real well now), the 4th she's trying different things and maybe it's daytime and we should have just not done anything till later (several unknown factors make it a dud).

A lot of sexual attraction is based on curiosity, which is why new partners are so alluring ("I wonder what she looks like under there?").

In the case of the original article, I don't think narcissism enters into it. Sounds like she just got tired of being with the same guy all the time.

 

[marmel75]

https://www.lennyletter.com/story/want-to-know-what-women-want-ask-them-about-their-affairs

No the untold truth is these guys were never very good at it and now likely aren't very good to look at naked either. Can't be both bad at sex and have a bad body too...

 

[marmel75]

I notice with Each sexual encounter with most women, the 1st is the best, the 2nd eh pretty good too, the 3rd she's less attractive (I know her body real well now), the 4th she's trying different things and maybe it's daytime and we should have just not done anything till later (several unknown factors make it a dud). So your texting with her may be getting more sparse (like I'm experiencing this week with one - of course, I'm 15 years older than she is but her previous boyfriend was 21 years older - she said something about how (can't remember the word so I'll insert) amazing it was with him (he has the same first name as me and is an owner of an insurance agency 7 employees; I'm blue colla but I wouldn't want his job having to "be nice" to customers All the time and be fake, wear a tie/suit etc etc - I prefer REAL people to deal with daily, the idiots, I'm not there for long to talk to them). Anyway, I will see whether she'll be able to make another go of it 2 days from now. I told her I couldn't make a festival next weekend (she likes going to all these concerts and festivals etc, she holds my hand all the time to and fro the car etc). She seemed unhappy last time before I left her because I told her why I "throw up blocks" to her (ploys for more commitment). Quite frankly, I still don't trust her cause she is "out there" and while I've never caught her in a lie, much of the stuff she believe I figure to be either a lie or way off base (about aliens, new age sh!t - which she says is not what she believes but I said it's close to what she believes and she wants to start a "dating site" to help people who think like she does and I'm like uh, there's very few who think like you do - she wants to charge $10 a month I'm like there's too much competition. She met her previous boyfriend on Zoosk which has facial recognition you pay for said she could use that feature in her site. I'm No, no, no, no.

If she can't go out in 2 days (she never can Sunday) then I have another better body/face that I will hit up.

Aren't you the one freaking out about some fat nasty chick on POF that is like an hour away?

 

[Poonani Maker]

Aren't you the one freaking out about some fat nasty chick on POF that is like an hour away?

Actually I've been rather calm the whole time here. I posted to show a potential plate showing when life gives you lemons, make lemonade. I'm sure most guys here want a fvck for fvck's sake. I'm not talking overly fat girls just "big boned" girls big n' tall. I'm willin to go there, you may not, thus you don't get much sex.

 

[old_skoolr]

Eh I found the whole article rather dumb.

All this research but no links to evidence, women apparently looking to cheat more then men in committed relationships, it's like they post stuff like this regularly almost trying to convince themselves.

 

[zekko]

women apparently looking to cheat more then men in committed relationships

The community claims women will cheat more, but at the same time they say men are naturally driven to spread their seed widely. Some even day that men have the given right to cheat because to bang multiple women is their natural role.

I mean you can't really have it both ways. Either gender might cheat, for their own reasons. It can't really be one more than the other, it takes two to tango.

 

[old_skoolr]

The community claims women will cheat more, but at the same time they say men are naturally driven to spread their seed widely. Some even day that men have the given right to cheat because to bang multiple women is their natural role.

The community says a lot of stupid stuff.

The point of the article is to continue the tired discussion of what women want.

The answer BTW ==>

(FYI, thats not for you zekko specifically, more newbies who will end up reading this post)

But I agree with your point, I just hate when people deal in absolutes, coz that's never ended badly.

 

[marmel75]

Actually I've been rather calm the whole time here. I posted to show a potential plate showing when life gives you lemons, make lemonade. I'm sure most guys here want a fvck for fvck's sake. I'm not talking overly fat girls just "big boned" girls big n' tall. I'm willin to go there, you may not, thus you don't get much sex.

Lmao...I dont go there and I get all the sex i can handle. Its called having standards and not being lazy.