"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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article: There's More to Life Than Freezing Your Eggs

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http://www.theatlantic.com/health/a...-more-to-life-than-freezing-your-eggs/275812/

I am 36 and recently made the decision to freeze my eggs. I know that I want to have a family, but have not met the right person to marry. I feel a lot of pressure to get married in the next couple of years so I can have children, and don't want this pressure to cause me to make a rash choice or to settle.
So let me get this straight. This chick thinks that she will be able to accomplish the catching of a proper husband at an older age then when she failed at a younger age? WTF? Perhaps what is really going on is that the freezing of eggs allows her to outgrow her pickiness and submit to a lesser man than Prince Charming.

The sad thing about this is that she probably could still pick up an incredibly sexually frustrated nerd at a higher age - something she would not be able to do in just about any other country. God Bless the USA ...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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women who have children often raise the clarion call...."my children are the most important thing in my life"....well maybe thye arent, after your job and money and lifestyle and freedom to well do everything you cant do without children tying you down
 
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