"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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article: There's More to Life Than Freezing Your Eggs

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http://www.theatlantic.com/health/a...-more-to-life-than-freezing-your-eggs/275812/

I am 36 and recently made the decision to freeze my eggs. I know that I want to have a family, but have not met the right person to marry. I feel a lot of pressure to get married in the next couple of years so I can have children, and don't want this pressure to cause me to make a rash choice or to settle.
So let me get this straight. This chick thinks that she will be able to accomplish the catching of a proper husband at an older age then when she failed at a younger age? WTF? Perhaps what is really going on is that the freezing of eggs allows her to outgrow her pickiness and submit to a lesser man than Prince Charming.

The sad thing about this is that she probably could still pick up an incredibly sexually frustrated nerd at a higher age - something she would not be able to do in just about any other country. God Bless the USA ...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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women who have children often raise the clarion call...."my children are the most important thing in my life"....well maybe thye arent, after your job and money and lifestyle and freedom to well do everything you cant do without children tying you down
 
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