article: The year of the femcel - Why are women struggling to find sex and love?

[SW15]

Not even an ugly man but an average man, say a 5 or 6 in looks. Maybe the type who’s not aggressive and doesn’t go after just sex right off the bat but tries to get to know the girl first or be traditional. He’s got no chance.

I agree that this type of man is getting slaughtered in today's mating market. The best chance that guy has is through social circle, typically a social circle developed from being in the same geographic area during his K-12 schooling years and remaining in that same area as an adult.

Approaching strangers and swipe apps are going to be a tough path for that guy in the 5-6.9 range.

 

[HaleyBaron]

There's never been a better time to be alive for "ugly" women than the present. Thanks to online dating apps they can get laid any time they want by guys they would never have had access to before. Will they struggle to find someone to actually date them? Perhaps. But let's not act like there aren't plenty of thirsty guys out there wanting to wait hand and foot on them. The problem, as they see it, is that these guys who would actually date them are usually of a similar attractiveness level as themselves and that's a tough pill to swallow once you've gotten used as Chads one night stand a few dozen times. Once again, these women would jump off the highest roof they could find if they had to endure life as an "ugly" man.

Bingo. Literally the problem. Self imposed.

 

[logicallefty]

I agree that this type of man is getting slaughtered in today's mating market. The best chance that guy has is through social circle, typically a social circle developed from being in the same geographic area during his K-12 schooling years and remaining in that same area as an adult.

Approaching strangers and swipe apps are going to be a tough path for that guy in the 5-6.9 range.

Best chance for Mr. 5 or 6 average nice guy is probably SoSuave. At least for a permanent solution.

 

[SW15]

I agree that this type of man is getting slaughtered in today's mating market. The best chance that guy has is through social circle, typically a social circle developed from being in the same geographic area during his K-12 schooling years and remaining in that same area as an adult.

Approaching strangers and swipe apps are going to be a tough path for that guy in the 5-6.9 range.

Best chance for Mr. 5 or 6 average nice guy is probably SoSuave. At least for a permanent solution.

SoSuave, the red pill, and the black pill aren't going to be as reliable in at least the medium term as a good social circle derived from geographical constancy. In a lot of cases, a lot of men don't accomplish as much with approaching strangers or swiping as they would have from social circle. From a social circle, they are better positioned to get that one girlfriend who will last for 5-10 years and they'll have sexual frequency for 3-6 of those years. There are men that couldn't get that from cold approaching or app swiping no matter how many YouTube channels they watch, no matter how many SoSuave threads they read, and no matter how many Rollo Tomassi books they read.

The channel for Mr. Average Nice Guy with a Social Circle is that he'll get divorced from this social circle derived girlfriend/wife in 10-15 years with 2 children. Mr. SoSuave forum reader and Mr. Red Pill is less likely to have a divorce problem, toxic ex-wife, and problematic child support/co-parenting arrangment. Iron Rule #1 - Frame is Everything.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

They brought it on themselves.

The more they go down the path of feminism, the less happy and more lonely they become.