"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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article: The Most Attractive Women Have the Least Casual Sex

MatureDJ

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(NOTE: For some reason I think that I or someone else has already posted this a while back.)

 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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devilkingx2

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I've always thought having an overly attractive girl was kind of like owning a Lambo or some other thing which is super desirable until you have it and realize what maintanence and taxes and insurance costs.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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zekko

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The most attractive women probably get taken off the market early, so this wouldn't surprise me if it's true.
A lot of them probably marry rich guys, exchanging looks for financial support. Could be.
 

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Many hot girls do need that.
The women I've known with impressive (?) lay counts were 5's and 6's, needing the physical/sexual validation. The hot ones tended to be serially monogamous, needing the self-worth/emotional validation. Avg's are more likely to be single and available at any given time, whereas most 7+'s are usually off-market and less inclined to take rando's home from the bar.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff

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Attractive women have the currency to purchase whatever arrangement they choose. I dont think most women like casual sex, but they trade it for intimacy and validation when they cant get a satisfying ltr.
They want validation from certain guys. Those guys usually are players or not trying to be tied down. So they exchange sex for validation.
 

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The most attractive women probably get taken off the market early, so this wouldn't surprise me if it's true.
A lot of them probably marry rich guys, exchanging looks for financial support. Could be.
When they have ni option for a Fine men they'll always go for the ¢¢.. The priority are always a fine men, even she married the rich guys when she saw something hot and compatible men then bye bye that $$ in no time.
 

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Many attractive Women are getting piped down behind closed doors. They are more selective since they are attractive themselves and they will go for the most attractive Men.
 
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