"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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article: The Most Attractive Women Have the Least Casual Sex

MatureDJ

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(NOTE: For some reason I think that I or someone else has already posted this a while back.)

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've always thought having an overly attractive girl was kind of like owning a Lambo or some other thing which is super desirable until you have it and realize what maintanence and taxes and insurance costs.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The most attractive women probably get taken off the market early, so this wouldn't surprise me if it's true.
A lot of them probably marry rich guys, exchanging looks for financial support. Could be.
 

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Many hot girls do need that.
The women I've known with impressive (?) lay counts were 5's and 6's, needing the physical/sexual validation. The hot ones tended to be serially monogamous, needing the self-worth/emotional validation. Avg's are more likely to be single and available at any given time, whereas most 7+'s are usually off-market and less inclined to take rando's home from the bar.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Attractive women have the currency to purchase whatever arrangement they choose. I dont think most women like casual sex, but they trade it for intimacy and validation when they cant get a satisfying ltr.
They want validation from certain guys. Those guys usually are players or not trying to be tied down. So they exchange sex for validation.
 

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The most attractive women probably get taken off the market early, so this wouldn't surprise me if it's true.
A lot of them probably marry rich guys, exchanging looks for financial support. Could be.
When they have ni option for a Fine men they'll always go for the ¢¢.. The priority are always a fine men, even she married the rich guys when she saw something hot and compatible men then bye bye that $$ in no time.
 

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Many attractive Women are getting piped down behind closed doors. They are more selective since they are attractive themselves and they will go for the most attractive Men.
 
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