MatureDJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
article: The Death of the PUA Community
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
nicksaiz65
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Interesting article. Topical since Roosh's new book Game got banned the first day it was released on Amazon Prime.
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meldiamond
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Roosh is a joke. The article itself is horribly written with almost zero research involved. Not that I have much respect for the pickup instructors mentioned as they are even sleazier than their reputations, but at least spend some time documenting their sleaziness.
R.U.G.
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Roosh had his time and day. Then again, the bro doesn't believe in washing his hair. So, he may be over the edge by now... LOL
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
nicksaiz65
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Yeah, he's not in his heyday, but I'd say a lot of the stuff that he says is still accurate. Ever watch his lives? His new book is pretty good too, very lengthy though.
old_skoolr
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Good to see David D getting his props.
Even though his style was basic, it was easy to implement and helped alot.
Mystery Methods was weird but had some interesting info, guy was too into props though.
The Game is still a cool book to read.
Even though his style was basic, it was easy to implement and helped alot.
Mystery Methods was weird but had some interesting info, guy was too into props though.
The Game is still a cool book to read.