"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Article: The Death of Macho

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Not for ADHD inclined, but very interesting read: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/art/2009/06/18/the_death_of_macho/

...billions of men worldwide, not just a few discredited bankers, will increasingly lose out in the new world taking shape from the current economic wreckage. As women start to gain more of the social, economic, and political power they have long been denied, it will be nothing less than a full-scale revolution the likes of which human civilization has never experienced.

This is not to say that women and men will fight each other across armed barricades. The conflict will take a subtler form, and the main battlefield will be hearts and minds. But make no mistake: The axis of global conflict in this century will not be warring ideologies, or competing geopolitics, or clashing civilizations. It won’t be race or ethnicity. It will be gender. We have no precedent for a world after the death of macho. But we can expect the transition to be wrenching, uneven, and possibly very violent.
There's a related article as well, written by a woman: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/articles/2009/06/19/good_riddance?page=0,0

She reaches a suprising conclusion:
Real gender equality, entailing a meaningful sharing of power within society, may thus be a prerequisite for optimal and rational policymaking, whether for households, countries, or the international community. The booms may not be as explosive, but then again, the busts may not be either.

It used to be said that behind every great man is a great woman. Maybe the scoundrels, hooligans, Genghis Khans, derivatives traders, and debt-securitizers could use a few great women, too—for the sake of the rest of us, if nothing else.
Discuss.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Radninja said:
Not for ADHD inclined, but very interesting read: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/art/2009/06/18/the_death_of_macho/



There's a related article as well, written by a woman: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/articles/2009/06/19/good_riddance?page=0,0

She reaches a suprising conclusion:

Discuss.

Real MEN will be even 10 times easier to spot.

No matter how much 'progressives' try to convince themselves that we are going to wash our nature out of us through brainwashing and education, it won't work.

The all ideal utopia will have a crack somewhere along the line and we'll be right back where we started.
 

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hyped-up gibberish; glance and ignore.
 

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The era of male dominance is coming to an end.
Pure alucination. In the case of my country, women usually takes more jobs related to education ro health, but even in those areas, men are in the bset positions. And when talking about political arena, women are very rare. usually when a woman is a candidate for something, which already is not common, they are already the wife of some other already very well stabilished husband in the area. Most women just dont have any interest in it.
And in the military as well, in my country, there are no women.

And honestly, actress, models, singers, etc, will always be the best choice for a woman when it comes to earning a lot of money.
 

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I would like to propose that there is more than one kind of "macho" man out there.

You have the ego fueled men who's self confidence comes from external achievements such as money, power, cars, houses, etc. These men puff their chests out and who's self-esteem will collapse when their empires crumble (like we've seen for some of those men on Wallstreet).

There are also the 'macho' men who are not ego fueled, but rather their self confidence comes from inner traits like courage, persistence, self-control, etc. These kinds of 'macho' men are the Stoic warriors who accept bad times as a test of their character rather than a sign of armageddon. These kinds of men are 'a man in full' and are generally ignored in the mainstream media.

I think maybe they are ignored because if they weren't then men would (goddess forbid) have actual good role models to look up to.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Luthor Rex said:
I would like to propose that there is more than one kind of "macho" man out there.

You have the ego fueled men who's self confidence comes from external achievements such as money, power, cars, houses, etc. These men puff their chests out and who's self-esteem will collapse when their empires crumble (like we've seen for some of those men on Wallstreet).

There are also the 'macho' men who are not ego fueled, but rather their self confidence comes from inner traits like courage, persistence, self-control, etc. These kinds of 'macho' men are the Stoic warriors who accept bad times as a test of their character rather than a sign of armageddon. These kinds of men are 'a man in full' and are generally ignored in the mainstream media.

I think maybe they are ignored because if they weren't then men would (goddess forbid) have actual good role models to look up to.
Agreed. :up:
 
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