"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Article: The Death of Macho

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Not for ADHD inclined, but very interesting read: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/art/2009/06/18/the_death_of_macho/

...billions of men worldwide, not just a few discredited bankers, will increasingly lose out in the new world taking shape from the current economic wreckage. As women start to gain more of the social, economic, and political power they have long been denied, it will be nothing less than a full-scale revolution the likes of which human civilization has never experienced.

This is not to say that women and men will fight each other across armed barricades. The conflict will take a subtler form, and the main battlefield will be hearts and minds. But make no mistake: The axis of global conflict in this century will not be warring ideologies, or competing geopolitics, or clashing civilizations. It won’t be race or ethnicity. It will be gender. We have no precedent for a world after the death of macho. But we can expect the transition to be wrenching, uneven, and possibly very violent.
There's a related article as well, written by a woman: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/articles/2009/06/19/good_riddance?page=0,0

She reaches a suprising conclusion:
Real gender equality, entailing a meaningful sharing of power within society, may thus be a prerequisite for optimal and rational policymaking, whether for households, countries, or the international community. The booms may not be as explosive, but then again, the busts may not be either.

It used to be said that behind every great man is a great woman. Maybe the scoundrels, hooligans, Genghis Khans, derivatives traders, and debt-securitizers could use a few great women, too—for the sake of the rest of us, if nothing else.
Discuss.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Radninja said:
Not for ADHD inclined, but very interesting read: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/art/2009/06/18/the_death_of_macho/



There's a related article as well, written by a woman: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/articles/2009/06/19/good_riddance?page=0,0

She reaches a suprising conclusion:

Discuss.

Real MEN will be even 10 times easier to spot.

No matter how much 'progressives' try to convince themselves that we are going to wash our nature out of us through brainwashing and education, it won't work.

The all ideal utopia will have a crack somewhere along the line and we'll be right back where we started.
 

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hyped-up gibberish; glance and ignore.
 

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The era of male dominance is coming to an end.
Pure alucination. In the case of my country, women usually takes more jobs related to education ro health, but even in those areas, men are in the bset positions. And when talking about political arena, women are very rare. usually when a woman is a candidate for something, which already is not common, they are already the wife of some other already very well stabilished husband in the area. Most women just dont have any interest in it.
And in the military as well, in my country, there are no women.

And honestly, actress, models, singers, etc, will always be the best choice for a woman when it comes to earning a lot of money.
 

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I would like to propose that there is more than one kind of "macho" man out there.

You have the ego fueled men who's self confidence comes from external achievements such as money, power, cars, houses, etc. These men puff their chests out and who's self-esteem will collapse when their empires crumble (like we've seen for some of those men on Wallstreet).

There are also the 'macho' men who are not ego fueled, but rather their self confidence comes from inner traits like courage, persistence, self-control, etc. These kinds of 'macho' men are the Stoic warriors who accept bad times as a test of their character rather than a sign of armageddon. These kinds of men are 'a man in full' and are generally ignored in the mainstream media.

I think maybe they are ignored because if they weren't then men would (goddess forbid) have actual good role models to look up to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Luthor Rex said:
I would like to propose that there is more than one kind of "macho" man out there.

You have the ego fueled men who's self confidence comes from external achievements such as money, power, cars, houses, etc. These men puff their chests out and who's self-esteem will collapse when their empires crumble (like we've seen for some of those men on Wallstreet).

There are also the 'macho' men who are not ego fueled, but rather their self confidence comes from inner traits like courage, persistence, self-control, etc. These kinds of 'macho' men are the Stoic warriors who accept bad times as a test of their character rather than a sign of armageddon. These kinds of men are 'a man in full' and are generally ignored in the mainstream media.

I think maybe they are ignored because if they weren't then men would (goddess forbid) have actual good role models to look up to.
Agreed. :up:
 
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