MatureDJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
article: The Adultery Arms Race
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Good read but kind of f*ucking ridiculous. I mean WHY the f*uck even get married or be in a committed relationship if you have to snoop around on your spouse? Just another reason to NEVER get married or even commit for that matter. And kids? They're marriage killers. Take a look at Match.com or any other dating site and you'll see 80%+ of the women over 35: "Divorced with kids."
Once you kill your neediness, you will have no problem focusing on YOU as #1. The women just become value-adds to your life, not the focal point.
Once you kill your neediness, you will have no problem focusing on YOU as #1. The women just become value-adds to your life, not the focal point.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Pathetic.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I'm at the point of "why even touch a woman?" Consiquences are, nature will take it's course, and I'll end in up in a frustratingly sh!t situation.
So, ladies can dream about being in a relationship with me. I'm not having it!
Society needs to get it's head out of it's ass, before I even think about spending my life with someone.
Till then, breaking hearts.
So, ladies can dream about being in a relationship with me. I'm not having it!
Society needs to get it's head out of it's ass, before I even think about spending my life with someone.
Till then, breaking hearts.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Many are quick to judge. And while women cheating on men is a horrible thing (worse than men hearing on women, because of biology), you still have to ask a couple of things.
Did the man lose himself? Did he forget how to be a man? Did he gain 200 lbs of fat? Is he a simpering, clingy, pandering wuss? Is the other woman’s coworker or whatever tf just better as a MAN? Did she ride the c0ck carousel when she was younger? Or did she have many friends who did and now she’s jealous she missed out on a lot of fun and is now in midlife crisis? Gotta look at a lot of different things.
Did the man lose himself? Did he forget how to be a man? Did he gain 200 lbs of fat? Is he a simpering, clingy, pandering wuss? Is the other woman’s coworker or whatever tf just better as a MAN? Did she ride the c0ck carousel when she was younger? Or did she have many friends who did and now she’s jealous she missed out on a lot of fun and is now in midlife crisis? Gotta look at a lot of different things.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.