MatureDJ
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
article: The Adultery Arms Race
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Good read but kind of f*ucking ridiculous. I mean WHY the f*uck even get married or be in a committed relationship if you have to snoop around on your spouse? Just another reason to NEVER get married or even commit for that matter. And kids? They're marriage killers. Take a look at Match.com or any other dating site and you'll see 80%+ of the women over 35: "Divorced with kids."
Once you kill your neediness, you will have no problem focusing on YOU as #1. The women just become value-adds to your life, not the focal point.
Once you kill your neediness, you will have no problem focusing on YOU as #1. The women just become value-adds to your life, not the focal point.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Pathetic.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I'm at the point of "why even touch a woman?" Consiquences are, nature will take it's course, and I'll end in up in a frustratingly sh!t situation.
So, ladies can dream about being in a relationship with me. I'm not having it!
Society needs to get it's head out of it's ass, before I even think about spending my life with someone.
Till then, breaking hearts.
So, ladies can dream about being in a relationship with me. I'm not having it!
Society needs to get it's head out of it's ass, before I even think about spending my life with someone.
Till then, breaking hearts.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Many are quick to judge. And while women cheating on men is a horrible thing (worse than men hearing on women, because of biology), you still have to ask a couple of things.
Did the man lose himself? Did he forget how to be a man? Did he gain 200 lbs of fat? Is he a simpering, clingy, pandering wuss? Is the other woman’s coworker or whatever tf just better as a MAN? Did she ride the c0ck carousel when she was younger? Or did she have many friends who did and now she’s jealous she missed out on a lot of fun and is now in midlife crisis? Gotta look at a lot of different things.
Did the man lose himself? Did he forget how to be a man? Did he gain 200 lbs of fat? Is he a simpering, clingy, pandering wuss? Is the other woman’s coworker or whatever tf just better as a MAN? Did she ride the c0ck carousel when she was younger? Or did she have many friends who did and now she’s jealous she missed out on a lot of fun and is now in midlife crisis? Gotta look at a lot of different things.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.