MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
You could always use an old phone/ a phone without Android/iOS/Windows and you are set 
. I have an old N08 with 12Mpx and good lense with Symbian, no apps for me. Or even better, get a nice antishock, water resistant brick with great battery life.
. I have an old N08 with 12Mpx and good lense with Symbian, no apps for me. Or even better, get a nice antishock, water resistant brick with great battery life.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
There is a comedian with a bit about how he never hides his phone, and when it goes off, he will ask his woman to read the text to him.
His next line is "mmm,hmmph...my real phone is in a potato chip wrapper out back."
His next line is "mmm,hmmph...my real phone is in a potato chip wrapper out back."
but here is the deal, the main reason for most of then to cheat, is on using new techs with old phones can't, but on a legal way, you can use that thing without a problem, as long you don't try to use that as prove for anything, try to find out if they are cheating then deal with it the right way after you get your confirmationYou could always use an old phone/ a phone without Android/iOS/Windows and you are set
but in the end serious if you want to keep dating several woman never get on a LTR, is not hard, and using 2 phones happens a lot with people who work demands
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.