MatureDJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
You could always use an old phone/ a phone without Android/iOS/Windows and you are set 
. I have an old N08 with 12Mpx and good lense with Symbian, no apps for me. Or even better, get a nice antishock, water resistant brick with great battery life.
. I have an old N08 with 12Mpx and good lense with Symbian, no apps for me. Or even better, get a nice antishock, water resistant brick with great battery life.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
There is a comedian with a bit about how he never hides his phone, and when it goes off, he will ask his woman to read the text to him.
His next line is "mmm,hmmph...my real phone is in a potato chip wrapper out back."
His next line is "mmm,hmmph...my real phone is in a potato chip wrapper out back."
but here is the deal, the main reason for most of then to cheat, is on using new techs with old phones can't, but on a legal way, you can use that thing without a problem, as long you don't try to use that as prove for anything, try to find out if they are cheating then deal with it the right way after you get your confirmationYou could always use an old phone/ a phone without Android/iOS/Windows and you are set
but in the end serious if you want to keep dating several woman never get on a LTR, is not hard, and using 2 phones happens a lot with people who work demands
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.