"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Damn so much tattoo haters lol.. Once upon a time ago, having tattoos was "edgy".. nowadays if you don't have at least 1, you're a square. This is all within the last couple decades. 20 years ago, tattoos were still mostly reserved for gang members, rock/punk stars, military, or any "alternative" scene. Having tattoos now it not what it once was. I think when tattoos are done right, by a good artist, they can be beautiful. More often than not though, people are just in a rush to get their sleeve filled, and end up getting some really terrible work done that looks even worse once it ages.

I'm 30, which means I was like 15-20 in 2005-2010 during the burst of the Alternative/Myspace movement. A lot of girls got tattoos and piercings during this time, I did as well. It was a fad that went away almost as quickly as it came.. but ink is forever. Most of the time I just assume girls got ink during this time period. I don't fault them for it. It's the girls that never grew out of the alternative look that I tend to avoid. They gotta be super fvcking hot for me to wanna deal with that, because these girls 9 times out of 10 are bat-**** crazy. But back to the point, when tattoos are done right I find them extremely attractive.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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