"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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article: Research Says Men Stare at Each Other’s Chests a Lot and Women Don’t Care - Shoulder-to-hip ratio is the new waist-to-hip ratio

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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An interesting read about whether men should lift to gain sexual desirability:
my opinion: I'm not buying it. :down:
I'm not buying the fact that women don't look for masculine traits.

I think they do.

I also think a man should lift heavy for his entire life.
 

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I'm not buying the fact that women don't look for masculine traits.

I think they do.

I also think a man should lift heavy for his entire life.
I don't lift heavy anymore (used to bench twice my weight, which is the ratio that NFL running backs do), but that's because I'm very mobile, and it's a PITA to always join a new club. I think push ups are just as good at keeping my bulk strong.
 

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I don't lift heavy anymore (used to bench twice my weight, which is the ratio that NFL running backs do), but that's because I'm very mobile, and it's a PITA to always join a new club. I think push ups are just as good at keeping my bulk strong.
Wow that's impressive!

Way to go on keeping up the training regimen.
That is so awesome to keep your bulk strong. Its just what you're supposed to do, you know?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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