"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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article: Research Says Men Stare at Each Other’s Chests a Lot and Women Don’t Care - Shoulder-to-hip ratio is the new waist-to-hip ratio

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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An interesting read about whether men should lift to gain sexual desirability:
my opinion: I'm not buying it. :down:
I'm not buying the fact that women don't look for masculine traits.

I think they do.

I also think a man should lift heavy for his entire life.
 

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I'm not buying the fact that women don't look for masculine traits.

I think they do.

I also think a man should lift heavy for his entire life.
I don't lift heavy anymore (used to bench twice my weight, which is the ratio that NFL running backs do), but that's because I'm very mobile, and it's a PITA to always join a new club. I think push ups are just as good at keeping my bulk strong.
 

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I don't lift heavy anymore (used to bench twice my weight, which is the ratio that NFL running backs do), but that's because I'm very mobile, and it's a PITA to always join a new club. I think push ups are just as good at keeping my bulk strong.
Wow that's impressive!

Way to go on keeping up the training regimen.
That is so awesome to keep your bulk strong. Its just what you're supposed to do, you know?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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