"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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article: Model who made £400k on OnlyFans facing cost of living crisis as men pay less for porn

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While Fenella used to charge £22, she is now only charging £4 for her content – and it’s negatively affecting her income.

“I have had to change around my pricing. For example, I’m no longer selling a video for £17 but £15, £13 is now £10 and £9 videos are now £8,” she explained.
“My rent has recently gone up and it felt like my accommodation wanted me to leave so they could put it up even higher, from £1,800 to £2,100 a month.

“But I managed to negotiate and get it for £1,845 a month which is still very high in my opinion as it's a two-bed apartment.”
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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These people don't know how to save money when they are making allot of money. Allot of those type of women have the same problem. It sounds great on paper that they make lots of money...however, without the skills involved to invest that money, save it, and just spend what is necessary, it means nothing in the end of if it is all spend badly. Maybe after they go through some hard-knocks they'll learn to manage their own money better in the future. But they might only get minimum wage jobs at best or settle for social assistance if their gig is up. No proper job will take these type of women seriously if they catch wind she did OF.
 

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The biggest thing that people do when they get a lot of money when they never had it, is they change their lifestyle completely and overspend money,

This article came out in 2022, she said up to that point she made 400 pounds in 2 years on OF that translate to nearly $265K a year. There is no reason for her to struggle even if she had 3 kids (which she doesn't)

These people don't know how to save money when they are making allot of money. Allot of those type of women have the same problem. It sounds great on paper that they make lots of money...however, without the skills involved to invest that money, save it, and just spend what is necessary, it means nothing in the end of if it is all spend badly. Maybe after they go through some hard-knocks they'll learn to manage their own money better in the future. But they might only get minimum wage jobs at best or settle for social assistance if their gig is up. No proper job will take these type of women seriously if they catch wind she did OF.
Spot on, people change their lifestyle thinking they will get this type of money forever or more and then reality wakes them up harshely. Trust me I've been there. However, you gotta understand that nothing goes up forever, and IMO if she lived a reasonable lifestyle she could easily save 10%-50% of her income (which she should anyway for taxes)
 

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Prostitution =legal here.

Seen many women falling for the trap that @Solomon described. Yes they make a lotta money BUT it's only temporarily. A hokker actually needs a financial manager who will help her save and invest so she can make bank from 20 to 30 y.o (and perhaps a little older).

Many of the women I've known who did this eventually end up broke, depressed with zero real life skills.

There's a reason why especially us men dont want out loved ones to get involved in this world.
 

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Prostitution =legal here.

Seen many women falling for the trap that @Solomon described. Yes they make a lotta money BUT it's only temporarily. A hokker actually needs a financial manager who will help her save and invest so she can make bank from 20 to 30 y.o (and perhaps a little older).

Many of the women I've known who did this eventually end up broke, depressed with zero real life skills.

There's a reason why especially us men dont want out loved ones to get involved in this world.
This is why pimps will always be needed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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