Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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article: Model who made £400k on OnlyFans facing cost of living crisis as men pay less for porn

MatureDJ

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While Fenella used to charge £22, she is now only charging £4 for her content – and it’s negatively affecting her income.

“I have had to change around my pricing. For example, I’m no longer selling a video for £17 but £15, £13 is now £10 and £9 videos are now £8,” she explained.
“My rent has recently gone up and it felt like my accommodation wanted me to leave so they could put it up even higher, from £1,800 to £2,100 a month.

“But I managed to negotiate and get it for £1,845 a month which is still very high in my opinion as it's a two-bed apartment.”
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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These people don't know how to save money when they are making allot of money. Allot of those type of women have the same problem. It sounds great on paper that they make lots of money...however, without the skills involved to invest that money, save it, and just spend what is necessary, it means nothing in the end of if it is all spend badly. Maybe after they go through some hard-knocks they'll learn to manage their own money better in the future. But they might only get minimum wage jobs at best or settle for social assistance if their gig is up. No proper job will take these type of women seriously if they catch wind she did OF.
 

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The biggest thing that people do when they get a lot of money when they never had it, is they change their lifestyle completely and overspend money,

This article came out in 2022, she said up to that point she made 400 pounds in 2 years on OF that translate to nearly $265K a year. There is no reason for her to struggle even if she had 3 kids (which she doesn't)

These people don't know how to save money when they are making allot of money. Allot of those type of women have the same problem. It sounds great on paper that they make lots of money...however, without the skills involved to invest that money, save it, and just spend what is necessary, it means nothing in the end of if it is all spend badly. Maybe after they go through some hard-knocks they'll learn to manage their own money better in the future. But they might only get minimum wage jobs at best or settle for social assistance if their gig is up. No proper job will take these type of women seriously if they catch wind she did OF.
Spot on, people change their lifestyle thinking they will get this type of money forever or more and then reality wakes them up harshely. Trust me I've been there. However, you gotta understand that nothing goes up forever, and IMO if she lived a reasonable lifestyle she could easily save 10%-50% of her income (which she should anyway for taxes)
 

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Prostitution =legal here.

Seen many women falling for the trap that @Solomon described. Yes they make a lotta money BUT it's only temporarily. A hokker actually needs a financial manager who will help her save and invest so she can make bank from 20 to 30 y.o (and perhaps a little older).

Many of the women I've known who did this eventually end up broke, depressed with zero real life skills.

There's a reason why especially us men dont want out loved ones to get involved in this world.
 

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Prostitution =legal here.

Seen many women falling for the trap that @Solomon described. Yes they make a lotta money BUT it's only temporarily. A hokker actually needs a financial manager who will help her save and invest so she can make bank from 20 to 30 y.o (and perhaps a little older).

Many of the women I've known who did this eventually end up broke, depressed with zero real life skills.

There's a reason why especially us men dont want out loved ones to get involved in this world.
This is why pimps will always be needed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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