Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Article: Milk: is it good or bad for us?

SinJester

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You're 16 so we'll let you off
But I'm mature enough to know that at this age no one is going to take me seriously on these forums.

LOL @ Alex
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what about Soy Milk? I love that stuff, ecspecailly the brand "So Good" its always nice and creamy and lol..so good!
 

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phytoestrogens.


It's not a huge deal, but there are better things to drink.

I try to stay away from it most of the time, but sometimes its nice to watch a movie with a big bowl of cereal and chocolate soy milk.
 

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I haven't fully researched this matter. Their might not even be enough research for me to fully develop this conclusion:

My inclination is that all kids' diets should be rich in red meat, eggs, and milk: the three most anabolic foods for humans. Eggs contain everything an unborn chicken needs to grow. Milk contains everything a baby cow needs to grow. Those two foods were developed for anabolic processes. As for red meat, its been in our diets for ages.

There are many vegetarian and even vegan athletes who perform at the highest level of competition. But those guys consumed red meat, eggs, and milk in their youth. Most of the people I know who were raised as kids on the vegetarian/vegan diet are either really small or have bad physiques.

I understand that lactose may be a problem for many people, and their might be other problems with milk for adults as well, but those problems usually don't apply for kids.

Milk tolerance will also vary from one culture to another. For example, Indians tend to have a very high tolerance for milk, its been a staple for ages. Many scholars believe that the reason why cows are considered sacred in India stems back to an age when it was much more economical for Indians to get their protein and saturated fats from milk rather than red meat.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe there wouldn't be as many issues with milk if everyone drank milk from free-range, grass fed, hormone free cows.
 

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spesmilitis said:
Maybe there wouldn't be as many issues with milk if everyone drank milk from free-range, grass fed, hormone free cows.
that would help those who are lactose tolerant, but not those who aren't. the latter simply lack the enzyme necessary to process milk sugar as adults.
 

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Kerpal said:
However, I find it strange that some on this board recommend that people eat fast food (which is total ****, definitely way worse for you than milk) a few times a week then freak out when someone mentions drinking milk.
fast food to get your calories in a couple of times a week is different to chronic milk consumption. if you said you had a bowl of cereal with milk a couple of times a week it'd be okay, but if you used milk as a protein source daily then I'd have a problem with it.

for the record, organic raw milk is semi-okay in moderation.. but as you say, it's hell to find.
 

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Kerpal said:
Yeah, here it is actually ILLEGAL for human consumption! If you tell the farmer you're buying it for yourself, they won't sell it to you. In fact, the cops here have actually raided farms before :rolleyes:

I agree that it's not a good idea to drink lots of milk as a protein source, it's more carbs in it than protein, in face I think you're the person who actually told me that. But I don't think a couple of glasses a day is gonna hurt anyone as long as it's organic and they aren't lactose intolerant.
Jeez! Where do you live?

I'm fortunate to have Whole Foods minutes away from home :)

Raw milk is very expensive, especially for the half gallons I buy, but to me it's worth it.
 

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Zerix said:
Jeez! Where do you live?

I'm fortunate to have Whole Foods minutes away from home :)

Raw milk is very expensive, especially for the half gallons I buy, but to me it's worth it.
I think its illegal in America. . . are you sure its raw?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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there are ways to get raw milk in the US, but it depends a lot on where you live & who you know

(hmmm... sounds like lots of other 'dangerous' and 'illicit' substances banned by the US federal authorities)
 

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Warboss Alex said:
mother's milk is AWESOME.. but once breastfeeding stops, putting cow's milk into your children's bodies is close enough to poisoning them. (even if they have no discernable reactions e.g. stomach issues)
Whoa, I thought kids are still good at digesting milk. I was under the impression that most of the issues with milk occur at teenage/adulthood. Why would milk be bad for kids?
 

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The scientific community is clearly divided on the subject. There's just as much evidence for milk as there is against milk.

Personally, I have drank milk just about every day of my life for the past almost 22 years. I still feel perfectly healthy.

If 40 rolls around and I'm sick from drinking milk, I'll let all of you say "I told you so"
 

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spesmilitis said:
I think its illegal in America. . . are you sure its raw?
It's not illegal in all of America. It's allowed in 28 states, California being one of them. Damn right mine is raw, or I wouldn't be drinking it :)

By they way, anyone have a say on Goat milk?
 

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Heres a guy whose been lifting for years with more experience than any of you.

who says MILK is bad ?

What One Tip Would You Give Other Bodybuilders?

Drink milk and lots of it! I have been drinking milk my whole career and owe everything I did to it.
He's been in the game for 20 years.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok... actual question...

what is the difference between cows milk and goats milk ?
 

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Milk have anything to do with hayfever?
 

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penkitten said:
ok... actual question...

what is the difference between cows milk and goats milk ?
From the comics I posted, apparently it has more taurine, smaller fat molecules, and doesn't contain the alphaS-Caesin that usually causes milk allergies.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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