"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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article: Middle-aged men have 'hotness delusion syndrome'

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https://www.news.com.au/national/mi...e/news-story/69d9c82dba68d16dab4759d9a5f86c4a
MIDDLE-aged men are being chased so much by single women that they are becoming deluded about their sex appeal.
A drought of mid-40s single men, compared with single women of the same age, means they are fiercely pursued, inflating their opinion of their attractiveness.
"An available male in his 40s receives a lot of attention because he's the only thing going around," Mr Salt said.
"He can be balding and paunchy, but this is not what he sees in the mirror. He sees nothing less than trim, taut and, so he is told, terrific."
At 44, there are 15 per cent fewer available males than females.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rollo has a vblog going Sunday with Pat Campbell. Its a fantastic resource and modern day follow up with the rational male. What the following article above portrays the debunking of the gender neutrality and everyone is equal horse **** society pedals. The economist put out a SMV article about dating and it wasnt flattering to women. It was pretty spot on. Shocking given the pc culture and victimhood parade.

The article aims at beta male shaming men back into the plantation. If he doesn't fall in line as a good little beta cuck provider, hes delusional and a man child. Rollo aimed today at women and dream killers.

There's no way back after the red pill. Afyer seeing female nature. For me, it wasn't reading coach Rollos rational male but, a decade +/- of game and chain gunning pickup. Women who hit you up after any absenteeism are jumping off the ****. Most of western society is full of train wrecks.

Men are shamed. Anti slut and fat shame women. Mitigation attempt to avoid cratered smv. Its systematic. Milo was destroyed by deplatforming. You or I could be too.

Coach rollo is correct. There's a burden of performance incumbent on being male. There's no escaping it. None. Mgtow is spot on with going your way and avoidance of the divorce court. Off the mark with sex dolls and female disregard. Both imho are on the same page but neither have a solution. Rollo is playing house meaning he can get divorced rape.

I seek a solution. I wont marry nor expose myself to divorce rape. I enjoy the novelty of pulling the chute at any given time. Competition is key to checkmate hypergamy. She can aim up the dominance hierarchy. New girls turning 18 everyday.

Musical chairs fellas. She's replaceable. Give me any excuse to hit the ejection button.
 

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MIDDLE-aged men are being chased so much by single women that they are becoming deluded about their sex appeal.
It seems to me that this sentence contradicts itself. If men are being frequently chased by single women, that would indicate that their SMV is high.
Nobody is writing articles saying that women in their early 20s are becoming delusional about their sex appeal because they are being chased by so many men. The proof is in the pudding.

This forum has frequently documented that men's SMV peaks in his 30s and 40s. The article seems to assume that middle aged men are only being chased by women that are their own age, but that was not my experience. You have to stay in shape, but older men will be chased by younger women as well (although many men do not realize this). Look at this forum, I'd say most of the 30 and 40 year olds here date women many years younger themselves.
 

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According to the writer's logic SMV doesnt depends on the demand on middle aged men but on some other factor that those men lack?

I guess he/she needs to attend a basic module in economy to understand the concept of value and how such concept is connected to desire, needs and will of people to pay for such good.

Once he/she manages to complete that module we will try to explain how "scarcity" increase the value of something if if such thing is ordinary as...single middle aged men or not too fat girls.

These are the same journalists who inform us about the outstanding value of old educated women while not even homeless people show and interest in them.
 

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Yeah, well many mid-30s men get women in their 20s...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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