"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Article: Men's Porn Use Linked to Unhappy Relationships
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol of course it does...porn makes men RAISE THE STANDARD OF WHAT THEY EXPECT THEIR BIATCH TO DO IN THE BEDROOM....women don't like ANYTHING that makes them DO ANYTHING...women like to give the orders not take them.
Porn makes men think that they might actually enjoy a woman who can take it up the azz or gobble some cvm once in a while...women are terrified that their docile beta credit card doormat husband might actually EXPECT SOMETHING OF THEM.
Porn makes men think that they might actually enjoy a woman who can take it up the azz or gobble some cvm once in a while...women are terrified that their docile beta credit card doormat husband might actually EXPECT SOMETHING OF THEM.
Yes the study would have been more relevent if it focused on long terms/marriage partners in their 30's or 40's. But since it is focused more on short term college age women "feelings" with regards to the quality of their own relationship vs. their partner porn viewing then it reached the conclusion that porn damages relationships.samspade said:
I would like to see the sizes & looks of these women who say that porn affects their relationship quality, sexual satisfaction and self-esteem as well as to answer why don't these women just leave their men if they are so unsatisfied?! Sexual market value is the answer to all these questions and not porn viewing, unless they belong to the tiny percentage of men who are completely addicted to it.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Of course the headline is going to be interpreted as porn causing the bad relationship, when in most cases it is the unhappy relationship that causes the porn use.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
The uncomfortable truth is that porn has saved/prolonged more marriages than it's ever destroyed.
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Of course, the use of umbrellas leads to raining.
Seriously just imagine how frustrated a guy can be to prefear porn to his girlfriend/wife.
Imagine how she is either unattractive or annoying, the problem in guys using porn is not that they are bad (when in doubt blame the men mainstream media), the problem is that they cannot get satisfied from their women.
Considering how few it needs to satisfy a man nowaday (a woman not really ugly and not too annoying can do) you can get how poor those relationships are.
Imagine this poor guy who come back home from a heavy day at work, the frustration of the traffic and the work place, he then come back home just to be lectured from his wife about his duties and how he should be grateful to have her still sticking around and how he doesnt deserve it.
Make it with direct words or showing with action...now can you blame the poor fvcker if for few minutes look at some big boobed blonde girl getting naked and showing him her assh0le with the request of sticking it inside?
Do you think the guy would still chose the video to a wam hug of a cute grateful accepting wife?
We all know the answer,also those indecent people bashing porn.
Seriously just imagine how frustrated a guy can be to prefear porn to his girlfriend/wife.
Imagine how she is either unattractive or annoying, the problem in guys using porn is not that they are bad (when in doubt blame the men mainstream media), the problem is that they cannot get satisfied from their women.
Considering how few it needs to satisfy a man nowaday (a woman not really ugly and not too annoying can do) you can get how poor those relationships are.
Imagine this poor guy who come back home from a heavy day at work, the frustration of the traffic and the work place, he then come back home just to be lectured from his wife about his duties and how he should be grateful to have her still sticking around and how he doesnt deserve it.
Make it with direct words or showing with action...now can you blame the poor fvcker if for few minutes look at some big boobed blonde girl getting naked and showing him her assh0le with the request of sticking it inside?
Do you think the guy would still chose the video to a wam hug of a cute grateful accepting wife?
We all know the answer,also those indecent people bashing porn.
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Or maybe simply makes you aim highter therefore forcing you to perform more and more in order to get it?PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Isnt it the point of this board, to simply give the best of you to achieve/get more and more?
The guy who run faster is the guy who wants the cup for the national competition, and even if he fail at it he then learned to run fast enough to get the regional one.
Those aiming to the regional one are most likely to get none.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Not if you watch fat girl porn!!!PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
oneboy21
Senior Don Juan
one more article written by a bish to promote women as good.
bishes never gonna learn. all they do is to blame on men for eveything little kunts.
bishes never gonna learn. all they do is to blame on men for eveything little kunts.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Exactly. The problem is not the porn. The problem is that the girlfriends/wives are so inattentive that their boyfriends/husbands need porn to have some kind of outlet. A porn habit does not cause a bad marriage; a bad marriage causes a porn habit.Who Dares Win said:
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You have to read between the lines.
Studies like that should be taken with a grain of salt because they are really hard to control and have loads (no pun intended) of lurking variables. Porn may be a relatively innocuous (or even helpful) part of a marriage or it could be really destructive, but there is always more to the story than just the porn. Porn is usually a symptom.
I agree with Samspade that for most people in small doses it is probably fine, but too much is destructive. If you are spending all your time looking at perfect young gorgeous women getting blasted from all angles, it fosters dissatisfaction, then guilt, and so on.
The key word here is report. In other words, women who DON'T report about their husbands porn use, or simply don't know about it, aren't having this same self-esteem problem. The ones who report it are having issues with it. It's a self-selecting bias.
Studies like that should be taken with a grain of salt because they are really hard to control and have loads (no pun intended) of lurking variables. Porn may be a relatively innocuous (or even helpful) part of a marriage or it could be really destructive, but there is always more to the story than just the porn. Porn is usually a symptom.
I agree with Samspade that for most people in small doses it is probably fine, but too much is destructive. If you are spending all your time looking at perfect young gorgeous women getting blasted from all angles, it fosters dissatisfaction, then guilt, and so on.