RickTheToad
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Marriage Has Become a Trophy
A wedding is no longer the first step into adulthood that it once was, but, often, the last.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Article - Marriage Has Become a Trophy
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Interesting that marriage took place AFTER children were all born.
Probably a good idea, that way you can see how fertile she is and if her weight and stabilised moods return back to normal after births.
There is a fun questionnaire book that could have been in high school curriculums.Here's the title in case you want to try this with your lady Toad.
Probably a good idea, that way you can see how fertile she is and if her weight and stabilised moods return back to normal after births.
There is a fun questionnaire book that could have been in high school curriculums.Here's the title in case you want to try this with your lady Toad.
RickTheToad
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Interesting, but not interested in marrying the State or deal with anymore family courts or attorneys. Once is more than enough for me.
Yes. I'm never marrying either.
Just seen your influx of marriage and engagement and giving house keys related threads over past 7 months or so and recognise the pressure is on you.
There's questions in this book that are provoking and revealing, the way even an intended religious wedding bride would answer them. Yes, you mentioned you would concede a religious wedding in one of your posts- I was shocked but completely understand your pressure.
Its one thing to glibly discuss these topics on an internet forum with profiles from around the world and quite another thing to be the participant in the relationship living out the posts as you type them.
My suggestion of this book is my gift to you, that maybe would further help you, I bought this book myself for my own next LTR(just scratch out the word marry) which would apply and help me#relationshipconversationstarters
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"Today, marriage is a much more central part of family life among the college educated."
To me, this really says that marriage is much more central to the blue-pilled lemmings who dutifully jump thru all the hoops that society expects them to jump thru.
And the atlantic being the woke trash that it is, they have to say that marriage is a heterosexual institution that should be transcended.
To me, this really says that marriage is much more central to the blue-pilled lemmings who dutifully jump thru all the hoops that society expects them to jump thru.
And the atlantic being the woke trash that it is, they have to say that marriage is a heterosexual institution that should be transcended.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.