"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Article laments that clothing designers ignore "plus size" women

MatureDJ

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http://www.latimes.com/features/image/la-ig-plussize-20101024,0,686409.story

My take is that fat women have very low sexual market value to begin with, and no matter what clothes such a woman would wear, it would be apparent that the woman is fat. Since you can't dress up a pig (literally!), what's the point? Just design the clothes for women who look good in them, and just add cloth to fit.

I'm extraordinarily frustrated that women have become so obese, making it so much more difficult for me to follow my instinct of wanting to sex lithe females. I mean look at this freaking butterball in the article! :down:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quote, "There are a lot of styles that won't size up."

Hmmm, perhaps the problem is that there are a lot of women who won't size down.

Last time I looked it was not compulsory to be fat.
 

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Must make clothes for "Big Girls"!!!! Make them lots and lots of clothes!

:eek: :eek: Otherwise...they'll be running around NEKKID!!!!!:eek: :eek:

Picture that image in your head~
 

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that is like them saying tom ford is ignoring fat people.. damnit becuase he is rotfl. some **** just don't look right on big people.

do we really want designer night wear for a 5'6 180 pound woman? They have guys who will date them as it is, we don't need to tell them it's sexy to be fat
 

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I consider the 1980's the most "wimp" period for the American male portrayal in media. If you look at women's fashion from that era, there's alot of loose fitting, shoulder pad garments for females. In other words, fat chicks and skinny chicks were equalized in the fashion industry in some sort of taking away the curves design "conspiracy", which seemed to masculinize women in the face of the wimpy American male.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm surprised the article isn't lamenting that men in general ignore plus-size women...
 

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samspade said:
Think they have this problem in Sudan?
actually believe it or not, sudan is the 4th or 5th fattest country in the world lol, so yeah,t hey do.
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america is the 3rd btw
 

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Fat people are good people. Some people will be slim whatever they eat while some will remain fat how much ever they exercise. I personally believe that he should have shown a bit more decency. There was no need for him to refer to fat women as pigs. After all they are also human beings like us.
 

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backbreaker said:
actually believe it or not, sudan is the 4th or 5th fattest country in the world lol, so yeah,t hey do.
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america is the 3rd btw
And first place goes to ? May I have the envelope please.
 

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I was reading a book that cited studies that men basically don't take into consideration women's clothing when deciding her attractiveness, but women largely do for men, and they noted that it's odd that women are obsessed with wearing the right thing when it doesn't matter, while usually men barely care when it does.


I also saw this while reading Evgeni Malkin's wiki page:
Malkin reports that when he was a child, he had "few friends because of his size and love of Twinkies." He says that he was a "husky kid in Russia, is unacceptable in Russia to be fat. Ask [Alexander] Ovechkin [of the Washington Capitals]. He tell you same thing."
Bring back social shaming!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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