MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A weak man complaining that what women want is unclear is to me like a parent complaining that what a child wants is unclear. It's a problem because the man hasn't assumed his role in the first place. Some guys have the attitude that women are fellow adults, they should be above this kinda stuff and you shouldn't have to treat them like children, but ime, that's just a part of the "men and women are the same" fallacy and it doesn't work that way and women also want to be treated that way anyway.Well, first of all, the article was written by a feminist woman so there's that.
Secondly, the men she interviewed all complained about how what women want is unclear.
Men should spend more time thinking about what THEY want and just go after it. This is what attracts a woman to a man.
Thinking about what a woman wants is pointless and futile because ultimately, a woman doesn't know what she wants.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Honestly, I wonder if women like that - speculatively, because I don't exactly go out of my way to meet a lot of women in the first place - are even good for sex. I know I'd at least rather save the time and do something else than make myself fvck someone I don't like just to bust it.What women are attracted to sexually has never (and will never) change. Same for men.
What has changed is for the first time in world history.. society has given women significant levels of power. Women don't know what to do with power. They are inherently submissive "group thinkers". Without men to lead.. they follow the hen house "pack" of female friends or whatever the media tells them is "normal".
So now we have a situation where women feel entitled and think they can choose the perfect man for every fleeting emotion or desire they have like a Chinese menu. Most modern women are delusional, arrogant morons lacking femininity. They don't even know how to act around real men. This is why any man with common sense in 2016 spin plates, sport f*cks and avoids marriage.
There is no reason for men to be "confused". Woman who don't act like women are only good for sex. Women who don't respect men are only good for sex. Women who don't follow a man's lead are only good for sex. Men who respect, glorify and pedestalize these women are faggots. Men who want LTR's with these women are pathetic.
And people wonder why I sh!t on LTR's.
This is what I thought when I saw who wrote the article. I read more articles from the author and playboy in general. It comes across as a women's magazine in the guise of a men's magazine. It's all just crap.Well, first of all, the article was written by a feminist woman so there's that.
Secondly, the men she interviewed all complained about how what women want is unclear.
Men should spend more time thinking about what THEY want and just go after it. This is what attracts a woman to a man.
Thinking about what a woman wants is pointless and futile because ultimately, a woman doesn't know what she wants.
Yeah. Also notice the imagery in the article. She uses a caveman to depict an "alpha man". The whole article is a joke.This is what I thought when I saw who wrote the article. I read more articles from the author and playboy in general. It comes across as a women's magazine in the guise of a men's magazine. It's all just crap.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That is the way that it is at my kids school. I told them to fight back. That I didn't care about the consequences. My youngest has bloodied a bully's nose and bit another. I have taught them that if they are in a fight there are no holds bared. Fight to protect yourself no mater what you have to do.As far as the US goes, the massive explosion of the modern police state isn't helping. More alpha behavior becomes a crime every year. For example, as of 2016, in my state it became a felony to yell at a bicyclist while driving a car. The crime is called "menacing." Also, if an underage girl propositions you for sex, and you turn her down, but you still talk to her in any way, that is also a felony. It's called "grooming." We've made it a crime to think about fvcking a 17 y/o
The public school systems get more ridiculous every year as well. Every school I know of has a "zero tolerance" policy regarding violence. They tell kids that if another kid attacks them, they will be punished for defending themselves, just as much as the attacker. They literally tell kids to cry for a teacher and let themselves get beat up until a teacher shows up to save them.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You shouldn't have to be an "alpha male" to be a confident, sexual man. Being a confident, sexual man should be baseline masculine behavior. The problem is that the baseline male in our society has dwindled down into such a pathetic, passive mess that guys think they need to look up to some stereotypical "alpha male" character to be someone. All they have to do is embrace their masculinity.Confident, sexual men will never go out of style.
I saw that too. What the hell is going on at Playboy these days???Whatever. That same chick wrote this:
http://www.playboy.com/articles/pegging-is-a-sex-trend
An article about how it's OK for the girl to strapon a dildo and fvck her man in the a$$....
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