MatureDJ
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Is Marriage Obsolete?
Maybe it is, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t good reasons to do it anyway.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I think its been obsolete for a long time. Feminazis, hypergamy, and social media attention wh0res addicted to instant validation certainly have not been helping.Is Marriage Obsolete?
Maybe it is, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t good reasons to do it anyway.
Most marriages end in divorce, and the ones that don´t, How many are truly happy? How many dudes do you know IRL that are actually happy in their marriage? For a long time, happiness in marriage has been the exception rather than the rule.
mrgoodstuff
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So marriage is used as a structure to control a man and lock in access to his resources?
Doctor Europeo
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And maybe that´s just the tip of the iceberg? You go exclusive and in theory, only one girl in the whole world is your only access to sex. You feel like a quickie? Oh to bad, your woman is not available right now, or maybe she is but doesn´t want sex right now for whatever reason.
Abundance mentality can disapear just like that. Oh hello there scarcity mentality, you old friend.
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Marriage is probably the biggest scam against men in this moment, it kills their freedom and masculinity while forcing them to provide time and resources to women that basically subcontracted from the government.
In a corrupt and hostile environment the last thing those in command needs are self reliant and strong men noticing that their freedom and property is under threat and taking action wheter passive through withdrawing financially from the system or active through protests and riots.
Entering women, providing problems and needs to men to keep them weak and concerned so they dont see anything else.
In a corrupt and hostile environment the last thing those in command needs are self reliant and strong men noticing that their freedom and property is under threat and taking action wheter passive through withdrawing financially from the system or active through protests and riots.
Entering women, providing problems and needs to men to keep them weak and concerned so they dont see anything else.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DEEZEDBRAH
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Is Marriage Obsolete?
Maybe it is, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t good reasons to do it anyway.
Lol do it anyways lulx
Women put out. Are less sexual after. Its lose lose.