MatureDJ
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Is Marriage Obsolete?
Maybe it is, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t good reasons to do it anyway.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I think its been obsolete for a long time. Feminazis, hypergamy, and social media attention wh0res addicted to instant validation certainly have not been helping.![]()
Is Marriage Obsolete?
Maybe it is, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t good reasons to do it anyway.www.thecut.com
So marriage is used as a structure to control a man and lock in access to his resources?I think its been obsolete for a long time. Feminazis, hypergamy, and social media attention wh0res addicted to instant validation certainly have not been helping.
Most marriages end in divorce, and the ones that don´t, How many are truly happy? How many dudes do you know IRL that are actually happy in their marriage? For a long time, happiness in marriage has been the exception rather than the rule.
And maybe that´s just the tip of the iceberg? You go exclusive and in theory, only one girl in the whole world is your only access to sex. You feel like a quickie? Oh to bad, your woman is not available right now, or maybe she is but doesn´t want sex right now for whatever reason.So marriage is used as a structure to control a man and lock in access to his resources?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Is Marriage Obsolete?
Maybe it is, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t good reasons to do it anyway.www.thecut.com