Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Steroid muscles look awful. One can get a great physique just being natty. But you know.. it takes time and we live in an instant gratification society.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Nah. I live in meathead capital of the world (New Jersey). Not hard to find gear. Homies be shooting up in the locker room of Planet Fitness. “Girls like muscles bro”
No one was singling you out specifically. Yet here you are here trying to validate your gear usage. We know steroids are not a substitute for hard work. They still look bad. People on gear also for some reason think no one can tell they use.. when 9 times out of 10 it is obvious.
If that’s what 2 years of wrecking your endocrine system produced, I’d want my money back. Your body structure is still the same. To most people, your clothes will fit the same in these two pictures.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah, 20 pounds too heavy. You looked better natty.
Everyone is getting popped. Acrors, professional athletes, Instagram influencers, and a lot of the dudes in your local gym. If it looks crazy, it is crazy.
And most of the dudes at the local gym don't know anything about supports for it so you'll likely be able to tell when they are showing off in tank tops and have back acne all over the place.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's not true. There are plenty of men that go on steroids that look like totally average guys off the street, you probably don't even realize how common this is because they don't stand out at all from other men. The steroid/pro bodybuilder look is a combination of genetics and honestly using hefty amounts of gear, or something very strong like Tren. I personally don't mess with steroids, but I agree with your comment about them being unnecessary. There are just so many negatives to them for no real benefit other than acquiring validation/attention from other MEN. Women don't care if you are bench pressing 500 pounds or that you look like Ronnie Coleman, who they wouldn't find attractive anyway. Women just want a guy that is fit/athletic who also can live a normal life and is not so obsessed with his gym routine/lifestyle that he refuses to do regular things. Something else to consider, the whole bodybuilding thing has a huge gay culture and following associated with it, something a lot of people are not at all aware of.
If you can't get big from Tren then you just can't get big. It's for fvcking cows. Or it's junk gear/severely under dosed which is all too common as well.
I agree. The steroid look is very easy to spot, there's a very clear definition of abdominals that would normally take insane dieting to get to as a natural, and the shoulders are always unnaturally round. Instagram has plenty of these people with damn near perfect physiques, and I honestly don't have any respect and admiration for those folks. Their physiques look fake and identical. I'm far more impressed by someone with a natural physique who has good proportions and relatively low bodyfat (like myself
)It is impossible to tank Estrogen on Aromasin. It will not go below low normal. They tested this on males getting 50mg a day and it only got to the lower range of normal but would not go down any more. The only difference they found on 25 mg a day versus 50mg a day was how quickly it got to that level.
Haha...I know more than you've forgotten brother. Keep at it tho, you'll get there someday.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.