"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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article: 'I'm sad that I didn't have sex until I was 37'

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In reviewing this article, I must conclude the meat of the matter is that antidepressants were successful in giving him the confidence that he needed to succeed with women, and had he been prescribed these meds earlier in life then this would have "cured" his involuntary celibacy. People say, "you need confidence", but that doesn't always happen like that without some help. Some people use alcohol, for others it might be something else. That's why I find it's unfair that when I use a confidence suggestion, like pheromones, ( which seem to be more harmless than antidepressants because at least you are breathing it in (as well as the women) rather than popping a pill that has crazy withdrawal symptoms if you go cold-turkey on it) that other posters are critical about it and portray it like a scam or buying false hope.

This is proof that sometimes you can't fake it until you make it, or just trick yourself into being more confidence with women. It's a neurochemistry of the brain issue that has to be solved somehow and then it becomes easier.
 

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He’s beyond damaged.
 
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