"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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article: 'I only fancy bad boys - I'm breaking up with 3rd fiancé because he's too nice'

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Why do I only fancy bad boys? Why do decent, regular blokes leave me cold? I’m in the process of breaking up with my third fiancé.

He’s heartbroken that I’m leaving. He and his lovely mother were organising a big wedding for us.

We were due to live in a beautiful cottage and benefit from an inheritance from his granny.

But I have to leave because he’s too nice for me. I don’t like to use the word “dull”, but there is no danger, excitement or edge in our relationship.
my opinion: Once this dingbat gets knocked up a badboy, she will get the "epiphany" that these dull men are better, but when none of them are interested in her, she will be complaining, "why are there no good men around?". :rofl:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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