MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
article: Heartache for Japan's real-life 40-year-old virgins
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The_flying_dutchman
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These dudes will never have to deal with a woman stealing half their assets via divorce and alimony.
They should thank their lucky stars and bang hookers and accumulate wealth.
They should thank their lucky stars and bang hookers and accumulate wealth.
KingBeef
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Interesting article....
It seems that some of them actually don't mind not having any women in their lives but if they're happy then good for them. Glad they don't have to deal with the social stigma of "not having a woman" here in the states...
It seems that some of them actually don't mind not having any women in their lives but if they're happy then good for them. Glad they don't have to deal with the social stigma of "not having a woman" here in the states...
Maximummax
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ThisThe_flying_dutchman said:
I looked into the comments section.. as predictd they are blaming guys for that.
The_flying_dutchman
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I was playing poker last night at the casino when this rich dude who looks to be around 45 sat down with his mail-order Fillipina wife. Dude was obviously a high roller since he bought in for like $1,200...
Anyways, he starts talking about how much he loves his wife.....that she's the mother of his son....that he just bought her a bmw.....that he buys her anything she wants.... and in return, she calls him "daddy"...
...meanwhile she's starring at me like she wants me to jam my kawk in her mouth.... actually, I'm pretty sure she's taking her neighbor's kawk while her husband grinds away at his job to support her lazy as$...
...I'm thinking "damn, this fool getting played like sucker...."
...honestly, I don't know why guys think foreign women are any better than american women...
...at the end of the day, they're all the same and they'll take you for everything you've got if you show any sign of weakness....
Anyways, he starts talking about how much he loves his wife.....that she's the mother of his son....that he just bought her a bmw.....that he buys her anything she wants.... and in return, she calls him "daddy"...
...meanwhile she's starring at me like she wants me to jam my kawk in her mouth.... actually, I'm pretty sure she's taking her neighbor's kawk while her husband grinds away at his job to support her lazy as$...
...I'm thinking "damn, this fool getting played like sucker...."
...honestly, I don't know why guys think foreign women are any better than american women...
...at the end of the day, they're all the same and they'll take you for everything you've got if you show any sign of weakness....
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
logicallefty
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Is it safe to assume that in the Japan the family ties from past generations are in general tighter than those in America? Thus the blue pill ideologies passed down to Japanese men who are now 40+ by their parents are taken more seriously. Or to put it another away, because of their upbringing Japanese men are more likely to be blue pill and thus less likely to attract a woman. Maybe here in America were are 10% red pill, but maybe there they are only 3%? I don't know any of this for sure, I am just speculating out loud..
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
Look up Japanese "grass eaters" there are about 25% of the younger generation males not really interested in women. BUT, IF I had to spend the hours working and commuting they are expected to do in order to have a family..... I may opt out too