MatureDJ
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
article: Heartache for Japan's real-life 40-year-old virgins
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The_flying_dutchman
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These dudes will never have to deal with a woman stealing half their assets via divorce and alimony.
They should thank their lucky stars and bang hookers and accumulate wealth.
They should thank their lucky stars and bang hookers and accumulate wealth.
KingBeef
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Interesting article....
It seems that some of them actually don't mind not having any women in their lives but if they're happy then good for them. Glad they don't have to deal with the social stigma of "not having a woman" here in the states...
It seems that some of them actually don't mind not having any women in their lives but if they're happy then good for them. Glad they don't have to deal with the social stigma of "not having a woman" here in the states...
Maximummax
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ThisThe_flying_dutchman said:
I looked into the comments section.. as predictd they are blaming guys for that.
The_flying_dutchman
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I was playing poker last night at the casino when this rich dude who looks to be around 45 sat down with his mail-order Fillipina wife. Dude was obviously a high roller since he bought in for like $1,200...
Anyways, he starts talking about how much he loves his wife.....that she's the mother of his son....that he just bought her a bmw.....that he buys her anything she wants.... and in return, she calls him "daddy"...
...meanwhile she's starring at me like she wants me to jam my kawk in her mouth.... actually, I'm pretty sure she's taking her neighbor's kawk while her husband grinds away at his job to support her lazy as$...
...I'm thinking "damn, this fool getting played like sucker...."
...honestly, I don't know why guys think foreign women are any better than american women...
...at the end of the day, they're all the same and they'll take you for everything you've got if you show any sign of weakness....
Anyways, he starts talking about how much he loves his wife.....that she's the mother of his son....that he just bought her a bmw.....that he buys her anything she wants.... and in return, she calls him "daddy"...
...meanwhile she's starring at me like she wants me to jam my kawk in her mouth.... actually, I'm pretty sure she's taking her neighbor's kawk while her husband grinds away at his job to support her lazy as$...
...I'm thinking "damn, this fool getting played like sucker...."
...honestly, I don't know why guys think foreign women are any better than american women...
...at the end of the day, they're all the same and they'll take you for everything you've got if you show any sign of weakness....
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
logicallefty
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Is it safe to assume that in the Japan the family ties from past generations are in general tighter than those in America? Thus the blue pill ideologies passed down to Japanese men who are now 40+ by their parents are taken more seriously. Or to put it another away, because of their upbringing Japanese men are more likely to be blue pill and thus less likely to attract a woman. Maybe here in America were are 10% red pill, but maybe there they are only 3%? I don't know any of this for sure, I am just speculating out loud..
sodbuster
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Look up Japanese "grass eaters" there are about 25% of the younger generation males not really interested in women. BUT, IF I had to spend the hours working and commuting they are expected to do in order to have a family..... I may opt out too