MatureDJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
article: Guys, unless you are really hot you are probably better off not wasting your time on Tinder
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
These articles are a waste of time. They only reflect the authors opinions and questionable stats, not real life experiences.
27 females with self reported response data, you’ve got to be joking us here…
27 females with self reported response data, you’ve got to be joking us here…
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DEEZEDBRAH
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Obv, swipe but, swipe right at life gentlemen.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Online dating ran its course years ago. It's time for all these sites and apps to be put to pasture.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Yes, I'd say regular use of Tinder [like porn] would create a lot of anger and resentment. It's easy to say harden up... and just treat it like a numbers game... but the reality is you are fueling your desire and passion... and this can lead to a lot of inner emotional turbulence.
'Harden up' should mean the restraint of your passions. The world is becoming a minefield for men today. Without some self-control and resiliency....
'Harden up' should mean the restraint of your passions. The world is becoming a minefield for men today. Without some self-control and resiliency....
El Payaso
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Tinder has become an app for attention seeking women to get validation, compliments, text buddies, e-orbiters, Instagram followers, free meals and drinks etc. Majority of them have no intention of going out or putting out.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I've a body count of 12 this year since splitting with my ex in Jan. All but 2 have been from Tinder and Bumble.
I'm filtering these girls out and banging hb7+ except one fat monster I banged 2 weeks ago, never again.
I love Tinder and Bumble. I am not a chad but I do have a handsome face and very confident.
I'm filtering these girls out and banging hb7+ except one fat monster I banged 2 weeks ago, never again.
I love Tinder and Bumble. I am not a chad but I do have a handsome face and very confident.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.