MatureDJ
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
article: Guys, unless you are really hot you are probably better off not wasting your time on Tinder
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
These articles are a waste of time. They only reflect the authors opinions and questionable stats, not real life experiences.
27 females with self reported response data, you’ve got to be joking us here…
27 females with self reported response data, you’ve got to be joking us here…
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DEEZEDBRAH
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Obv, swipe but, swipe right at life gentlemen.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Online dating ran its course years ago. It's time for all these sites and apps to be put to pasture.
ChristopherColumbus
Master Don Juan
Yes, I'd say regular use of Tinder [like porn] would create a lot of anger and resentment. It's easy to say harden up... and just treat it like a numbers game... but the reality is you are fueling your desire and passion... and this can lead to a lot of inner emotional turbulence.
'Harden up' should mean the restraint of your passions. The world is becoming a minefield for men today. Without some self-control and resiliency....
'Harden up' should mean the restraint of your passions. The world is becoming a minefield for men today. Without some self-control and resiliency....
El Payaso
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Tinder has become an app for attention seeking women to get validation, compliments, text buddies, e-orbiters, Instagram followers, free meals and drinks etc. Majority of them have no intention of going out or putting out.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I've a body count of 12 this year since splitting with my ex in Jan. All but 2 have been from Tinder and Bumble.
I'm filtering these girls out and banging hb7+ except one fat monster I banged 2 weeks ago, never again.
I love Tinder and Bumble. I am not a chad but I do have a handsome face and very confident.
I'm filtering these girls out and banging hb7+ except one fat monster I banged 2 weeks ago, never again.
I love Tinder and Bumble. I am not a chad but I do have a handsome face and very confident.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.