"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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article: Guys, unless you are really hot you are probably better off not wasting your time on Tinder

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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These articles are a waste of time. They only reflect the authors opinions and questionable stats, not real life experiences.
27 females with self reported response data, you’ve got to be joking us here…
 
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Obv, swipe but, swipe right at life gentlemen.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Online dating ran its course years ago. It's time for all these sites and apps to be put to pasture.
 

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Yes, I'd say regular use of Tinder [like porn] would create a lot of anger and resentment. It's easy to say harden up... and just treat it like a numbers game... but the reality is you are fueling your desire and passion... and this can lead to a lot of inner emotional turbulence.

'Harden up' should mean the restraint of your passions. The world is becoming a minefield for men today. Without some self-control and resiliency....
 

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Tinder has become an app for attention seeking women to get validation, compliments, text buddies, e-orbiters, Instagram followers, free meals and drinks etc. Majority of them have no intention of going out or putting out.
 

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I've a body count of 12 this year since splitting with my ex in Jan. All but 2 have been from Tinder and Bumble.

I'm filtering these girls out and banging hb7+ except one fat monster I banged 2 weeks ago, never again.

I love Tinder and Bumble. I am not a chad but I do have a handsome face and very confident.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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