article: Girls on Tinder do smash. A lot!

[mrgoodstuff]

Agreed. Beta / alpha is a more of a mindset. Doesn't really play into initial attraction. However, it can have an effect on how one's presents themselves to others.

It triggers a perception

 

[Macaframalama]

With a woman just wanting to have fun, being direct works. I've said it a million times now. Sexual gratification, emotional gratification, financial gratification. Find out her needs and what she's about and you will know what cards to play and how to play them.

Beta / alpha is a more of a mindset.

It couldn't be the furthest thing from it. Alpha/beta is a hierarchy amongst men. It has jack chit to do with women and cannot be faked with men, without getting called on your chit, before long. It's a lifestyle of choices, action and doing, not this intangible quality, that the pua dweebs are constantly pushing. It is taking risks, pushing boundaries, doing whatever the fvck you feel like doing, when you feel like doing it, wherever you feel like doing it, regardless of of the opinions of others outside of your circle. You can't think your way into it, with some bull chit mindset. It requires skin in the game and mettle testing.

 

[R.U.G.]

With a woman just wanting to have fun, being direct works. I've said it a million times now. Sexual gratification, emotional gratification, financial gratification. Find out her needs and what she's about and you will know what cards to play and how to play them.

It couldn't be the furthest thing from it. Alpha/beta is a hierarchy amongst men. It has jack chit to do with women and cannot be faked with men, without getting called on your chit, before long. It's a lifestyle of choices, action and doing, not this intangible quality, that the pua dweebs are constantly pushing. It is taking risks, pushing boundaries, doing whatever the fvck you feel like doing, when you feel like doing it, wherever you feel like doing it, regardless of of the opinions of others outside of your circle. You can't think your way into it, with some bull chit mindset. It requires skin in the game and mettle testing.

Exactly. A MINDSET on how to LIVE YOUR LIFE.

 

[MatureDJ]

When I was on OkCupid last year, several women, average looking, just messaged me to have fun and see where it goes. My pragmatic brain wouldn't chance it. If they were offering it to me, a stranger that she hadn't even talked to, heaven only knows how many other men have been through her in the last week; let a lone the last month or more. I know I am a bit more cautious than others, however, I had an STD scare years ago, and it's just not worth the risk. Call me the voice of reason, not the voice of getting it on. All for getting it on, AFTER a full STD screen. Ask a woman to first take an full STD screen before sex, I will bet you a dinner at a fancy steak house that she'll jet. I know, because it's happened to me plenty of times.

I got Chlamidia a few years back. NOT FUN!

 

[Mike32ct]

At first, we called it the 80/20 rule, and nobody believed us. To be fair, it was a crude misapplication of P a re to’s Law.

But it turns out to be pretty close to reality when you have actual data.

All that aside, I think Tinder is so popular because it solves two key “problems” that women traditionally had while trying to hook up at a bar or club.

1. It’s anonymous. She doesn’t have to be embarrassed to leave with a guy in front of her friends and risk looking like sl u t or be judged for the type of guy she wants.

2. Assuming she’s not the type to approach men, in person is a bit of a gamble for her. Should she take average guy who approached early? No. Maybe the drunk Chad-lite who approached later? Or hold out until closing time for Chad and risk getting nothing?

With Tinder, she can swipe right on Chads first. Then possibly downgrade to an upper-tier Chad-lite if she doesn’t get any Chad matches. Much less of a gamble for her than in real life.

 

[R.U.G.]

I got Chlamidia a few years back. NOT FUN!

Sorry bro, I've been there with a Herpes scare. It changed my view on having fun and just fvcking for fun. Yea, it's nice and such, and it creates such a rush. However, now, seeing how all these women are so promiscuous (heck, they make most men look like neophytes), I'm just very cautious. Possibly too cautious I am told. However, I'm in my early 40's and I have at least another 40 years on this rock.. Rather not deal with incurable STDs for an hour of fun. Heck, I even tried to do the let's get the STD test together, nope. They scram. Tells me they know something that they are not sharing. As I've stated before, a women years back told me that she has Herpes AFTER fvcking six times over a 12 hour period. WTF? I have friends with the Herp. Some days, they tell me they want to kill themselves as they get outbreaks on their penis head. Not through vag or anal, but oral sex. It's a nasty little bug. I'd prob. be a bit more liberal when they have a vaccine for the herp and better antibiotics for Chlamidia and Super Gonorrhea. They had to quarantine a man in Britain (http://www.newser.com/story/257181/officials-say-man-has-worst-ever-case-of-gonorrhea.html) because they couldn't cure his SG until they took the last line of defense to kill it.

I have not FOMO for pvssy. It's nice and all of that, but it's not worth it to me anymore for one of these diseases. Yea, the big ones like SG SC and HIV are rarer than others. However, Herp is VERY COMMON. I've never been exposed to it so I have no antibodies. Never had mono. I know it goes against So Suave's mandate, but it's so dangerous now. At least in NYC it is. I do not understand why they have a vaccine (99.8% effectiveness) for HIV, but none for these other ones.

 

[R.U.G.]

At first, we called it the 80/20 rule, and nobody believed us. To be fair, it was a crude misapplication of P a re to’s Law.

But it turns out to be pretty close to reality when you have actual data.

All that aside, I think Tinder is so popular because it solves two key “problems” that women traditionally had while trying to hook up at a bar or club.

1. It’s anonymous. She doesn’t have to be embarrassed to leave with a guy in front of her friends and risk looking like sl u t or be judged for the type of guy she wants.

2. Assuming she’s not the type to approach men, in person is a bit of a gamble for her. Should she take average guy who approached early? No. Maybe the drunk Chad-lite who approached later? Or hold out until closing time for Chad and risk getting nothing?

With Tinder, she can swipe right on Chads first. Then possibly downgrade to an upper-tier Chad-lite if she doesn’t get any Chad matches. Much less of a gamble for her than in real life.

Rest assured, if you chance your life enough times with those scanks (male or female), you will catch something. Just be careful. Women, usually to do not think about the future, men usually do. Don't have tunnel vision..

Rant over.

 

[Spaz]

Alpha/beta is a hierarchy amongst men. It has jack chit to do with women and cannot be faked with men, without getting called on your chit, before long. It's a lifestyle of choices, action and doing, not this intangible quality, that the pua dweebs are constantly pushing. It is taking risks, pushing boundaries, doing whatever the fvck you feel like doing, when you feel like doing it, wherever you feel like doing it, regardless of of the opinions of others outside of your circle. You can't think your way into it, with some bull chit mindset. It requires skin in the game and mettle testing.

^This.

At last someone here gets it.

All those post abt Alpha u n00bs r reading from PUA sites r pure crap.

And it all can be coined into 2 simple words which many lack; bravery and courage.

Some r born with this traits and some were thought this traits from very young until it becomes part of their psyche.

Don't think by reading and memorization of "alpha" traits is going to get u anywhere when deep down u r a fvcking coward with little to no principles.

 

[skinnyguy]

At first, we called it the 80/20 rule, and nobody believed us. To be fair, it was a crude misapplication of P a re to’s Law.

But it turns out to be pretty close to reality when you have actual data.

All that aside, I think Tinder is so popular because it solves two key “problems” that women traditionally had while trying to hook up at a bar or club.

1. It’s anonymous. She doesn’t have to be embarrassed to leave with a guy in front of her friends and risk looking like sl u t or be judged for the type of guy she wants.

2. Assuming she’s not the type to approach men, in person is a bit of a gamble for her. Should she take average guy who approached early? No. Maybe the drunk Chad-lite who approached later? Or hold out until closing time for Chad and risk getting nothing?

With Tinder, she can swipe right on Chads first. Then possibly downgrade to an upper-tier Chad-lite if she doesn’t get any Chad matches. Much less of a gamble for her than in real life.

So true. She probably gets a higher quality guy on Tinder than at the club. Chads can’t spam approach hundreds of women every single night. But they can swipe right on hundreds of women. She’s hoping one of them is her. Not to mention, she doesn’t have to deal with ugly betas approaching her on Tinder.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Yuk

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Glad to know that 16% of the guys are banging 80% of the girls while 100% of the guys are paying 80% of the taxes...where are the social JUSTICE warriors when you need them?

Dont get me wrong I fully support freedom of choice, its just that if women give their fruit to few then they shouldnt expect the many to support a welfare system they benefit from.

Mark my words when the average guy finds out that he has been tricked, lied and taken advantage, his reaction wont be the best one....no government will mean sh1t when a critical mass of betas gets mad.

Think of "atlas shurgged" for the best option, think of london riots for the worst.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

When I was on OkCupid last year, several women, average looking, just messaged me to have fun and see where it goes. My pragmatic brain wouldn't chance it. If they were offering it to me, a stranger that she hadn't even talked to, heaven only knows how many other men have been through her in the last week; let a lone the last month or more. I know I am a bit more cautious than others, however, I had an STD scare years ago, and it's just not worth the risk. Call me the voice of reason, not the voice of getting it on. All for getting it on, AFTER a full STD screen. Ask a woman to first take an full STD screen before sex, I will bet you a dinner at a fancy steak house that she'll jet. I know, because it's happened to me plenty of times.

Yes, this should be a turn off not a turn on.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

At first, we called it the 80/20 rule, and nobody believed us. To be fair, it was a crude misapplication of P a re to’s Law.

But it turns out to be pretty close to reality when you have actual data.

All that aside, I think Tinder is so popular because it solves two key “problems” that women traditionally had while trying to hook up at a bar or club.

1. It’s anonymous. She doesn’t have to be embarrassed to leave with a guy in front of her friends and risk looking like sl u t or be judged for the type of guy she wants.

2. Assuming she’s not the type to approach men, in person is a bit of a gamble for her. Should she take average guy who approached early? No. Maybe the drunk Chad-lite who approached later? Or hold out until closing time for Chad and risk getting nothing?

With Tinder, she can swipe right on Chads first. Then possibly downgrade to an upper-tier Chad-lite if she doesn’t get any Chad matches. Much less of a gamble for her than in real life.

ha ha... the degeneracy of sex to mutual masturbation.

 

[Who Dares Win]

At first, we called it the 80/20 rule, and nobody believed us. To be fair, it was a crude misapplication of P a re to’s Law.

But it turns out to be pretty close to reality when you have actual data.

All that aside, I think Tinder is so popular because it solves two key “problems” that women traditionally had while trying to hook up at a bar or club.

1. It’s anonymous. She doesn’t have to be embarrassed to leave with a guy in front of her friends and risk looking like sl u t or be judged for the type of guy she wants.

2. Assuming she’s not the type to approach men, in person is a bit of a gamble for her. Should she take average guy who approached early? No. Maybe the drunk Chad-lite who approached later? Or hold out until closing time for Chad and risk getting nothing?

With Tinder, she can swipe right on Chads first. Then possibly downgrade to an upper-tier Chad-lite if she doesn’t get any Chad matches. Much less of a gamble for her than in real life.

Totally agree, very well said in every side.

I would add that in tinder she can keep lesser chads on stand-by while she finalize with the real deal, something she cant clearly do at the club or at work.

 

[sosousage]

i mean, is it wrong or good?

all you need to get in top 20% of tinder is to get ripped and some good haircut

sure 80% of males are losing hard but these women arent winning are they?

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

No-one is winning in my opinion... when there is no ethic or morality, when everyone is competing against everyone else, when life is 'solitary, poor, nasty, brutish and short', what is lost is any sense of solidarity. Divided and conquered, men run around after women behaving badly. Men have lost their leadership role.

 

[Epicurus]

I thought everyone did this. My only OLD tactic is blatantly telling girls I want to fuvk or inviting them over. But I very often do get called a “9” or “super attractive” so try at your own risk. BUT if you are a fairly good looking guy please don’t waste a single date one these women

 

[IKO69]

You guys waste your time on that trash? Yu don't even know if you are talking to a woman....& then you have to deal with the one's that are just their for an ego boost and won't take it any further. I know this stuff is "acceptable" now but most women are still suspicious of dudes that use these things.

 

[devilkingx2]

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a22977-girls-on-tinder-do-smash-a-lot

my opinion:

I figured it was just me that couldn't get any luck with tinder since some of my friends have great luck with it tbh, now I know it's practically everyone

Guys who aren't afraid of being direct when the situation calls for being direct will succeed more than the ones who don't

to me it implies that girls who wanna **** wanna ****

girls who put up resistance probably just don't want to ****, it's not about finding the perfect line that doesn't offend their delicate sensibilities like most girls would have you assume, a girl doesn't reject you because your pickup line is too corny lol

240/300 is 80 %

50/300 is 16.6%

So 80% of girls are having sex with 16% of men.

Not exactly earth shattering. Genetics indicate this was happening long before even electricity was invented.

The opening lines these 16% guys are using isn't pretty irrelevant. That they are in the top 16% is the only part that is relevant.

Trying to emulate their success would be like wearing the same color tie as the top salesperson at your company.

technically there's no actual proof that these guys are the top 20% unless your only measure is whether or not they get laid

if the study said that on average these guys are taller, richer, better looking, more muscular, smarter, more charismatic, etc. that would be one thing

but using "wanna smash" doesn't imply intelligence or charisma imo

 

[MatureDJ]

No-one is winning in my opinion... when there is no ethic or morality, when everyone is competing against everyone else, when life is 'solitary, poor, nasty, brutish and short', what is lost is any sense of solidarity. Divided and conquered, men run around after women behaving badly. Men have lost their leadership role.

I'M MAD AS H3LL, AND I'M NOT GOING TO TAKE IT ANYMORE!