“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As more women earn high-level corporate roles, more husbands are staying home, raising the kids, and changing the rules

http://www.businessweek.com/magazine/behind-every-great-woman-01042012.html

My take - this is an unnatural, and therefore unstable situation. Men are supposed to bring home the bacon, and the woman is supposed to cook it up. A woman who brings home the bacon will never entirely respect her husband.

Of course, the couple first featured has a cougar (age 49) with an age 38 husband, who should be dating women his son's (stepson's?) (age 19) age.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I disagree -- if a woman made more than me, that wouldn't bother me, assuming she still treated me with respect and we had a healthy balanced relationship. I don't need to one-up someone or wield power. I would be ok if she was cool about it.

If she was making all the bling and trying to act like superwoman, trying to peg me into some stereotype as a 'helpless man', that would be a different story. Get the fvck off my back I'll hold my own, is likely what I'd say. There are lots of people, men and women, who make good $ but don't let it get to there heads. A lot of people can recognize the opportunities they've had along the way, etc, and not always let it bloat their ego.

So if I was with a chick who was balanced in not being a ****y-b!tch, sure, make more $, in fact, that would make me less concerned about her trying to peddle me for cash!
 
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