"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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article: Behind Every Great Woman

MatureDJ

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As more women earn high-level corporate roles, more husbands are staying home, raising the kids, and changing the rules

http://www.businessweek.com/magazine/behind-every-great-woman-01042012.html

My take - this is an unnatural, and therefore unstable situation. Men are supposed to bring home the bacon, and the woman is supposed to cook it up. A woman who brings home the bacon will never entirely respect her husband.

Of course, the couple first featured has a cougar (age 49) with an age 38 husband, who should be dating women his son's (stepson's?) (age 19) age.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I disagree -- if a woman made more than me, that wouldn't bother me, assuming she still treated me with respect and we had a healthy balanced relationship. I don't need to one-up someone or wield power. I would be ok if she was cool about it.

If she was making all the bling and trying to act like superwoman, trying to peg me into some stereotype as a 'helpless man', that would be a different story. Get the fvck off my back I'll hold my own, is likely what I'd say. There are lots of people, men and women, who make good $ but don't let it get to there heads. A lot of people can recognize the opportunities they've had along the way, etc, and not always let it bloat their ego.

So if I was with a chick who was balanced in not being a ****y-b!tch, sure, make more $, in fact, that would make me less concerned about her trying to peddle me for cash!
 
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