"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thread starter MatureDJ
Start date Nov 8, 2019

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Master Don Juan

Nov 30, 2019

I'm between jobs at the moment and I already have one friend who seems less keen to catch up.

Totally ridiculous I'm cashed up and I'm working on my old house to sell it. And I've been working continuously in my city for the last 19 years.

But evidently being between gigs is like leprosy these days you might catch.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.