MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
True, however this article has major contradictions in it. The auther, claims women's feminity, has changed over the years several times...yet, masculinity has not, or more accurately, can not change.samspade said:Masculinity is not necessarily defined by men, just as women do not define what is feminine. At the end of the day, the number of 'ginas you tingle and/or penetrate have more to do with your level of manhood than your high score on Pac Man or what kind of beer you like..
I agree with you, the definitions are too narrow. Alpha dominates the betas, and the omegas are discarded from the pack...hmm, which one am I? I laugh at this actually. I am NOT a pack animal.Forty0ztoFreedom said:I relate to a lot in that article. Oh well.
To be honest I find the beta/alpha/omega thing pretty silly. Like anyone knows what f*ck they're talking about. Because why? WOLVES? Give me a break.