"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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article: 7 Reasons Why You Should Want to Date an Older Woman

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To be honest, I think it would hold more weight to see an article like this written by a man, from a man's perspective, rather than a woman's, because of course a woman is going to advocate being desired by younger men. And I'm stating this as a 33 yr old woman. I think older women are more likely to be comfortable with sex and their bodies and expressing themselves sexually and are probably less needy and dramatic but I would be more interested in what men think about this, rather then what other women think.
 

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I'm 41 and my current gf is 46. She's insecure about her age and me having been with a lot of younger women, but that manifests itself by her wanting to have sex with me constantly. She sets her alarm early every morning so she can wake up and blow me before she goes to work. She has not missed a single morning with that trick, at least when she has slept at my place. We have sex every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day.

She also has a good job, buys most of our food, and is also good at cooking it. She never asks me to take her anywhere or spend money on her. I think I'm in it mostly for the bl0wjobs, though. She has serious skills.
 

Who Dares Win

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I'm 41 and my current gf is 46. She's insecure about her age and me having been with a lot of younger women, but that manifests itself by her wanting to have sex with me constantly. She sets her alarm early every morning so she can wake up and blow me before she goes to work. She has not missed a single morning with that trick, at least when she has slept at my place. We have sex every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day.

She also has a good job, buys most of our food, and is also good at cooking it. She never asks me to take her anywhere or spend money on her. I think I'm in it mostly for the bl0wjobs, though. She has serious skills.
****ing an older woman 2-3 times a day? mate Im younger than you but wish I could perform even half of what you do...I can do it once or twice with a <25 one
 

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"She doesn’t move in a herd."

This is the only accurate and relevant one. If she's like this because she's blown through all her friendships though.... Plus she runs in the "herd" of a thousand ghosts from her past.
^This^

Temporary plate or fwb at best. I'm 38 & my fwb is 44, no kids. It's pretty f*cking amazing what yrs of yoga does for the body. I'm still scratching my head. The whole having a bush is pretty weird as I haven't seen 1 in probably 20yrs. Red flags galore though so definitely not RL worthy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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