"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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article: 7 Reasons Why You Should Want to Date an Older Woman

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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To be honest, I think it would hold more weight to see an article like this written by a man, from a man's perspective, rather than a woman's, because of course a woman is going to advocate being desired by younger men. And I'm stating this as a 33 yr old woman. I think older women are more likely to be comfortable with sex and their bodies and expressing themselves sexually and are probably less needy and dramatic but I would be more interested in what men think about this, rather then what other women think.
 

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I'm 41 and my current gf is 46. She's insecure about her age and me having been with a lot of younger women, but that manifests itself by her wanting to have sex with me constantly. She sets her alarm early every morning so she can wake up and blow me before she goes to work. She has not missed a single morning with that trick, at least when she has slept at my place. We have sex every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day.

She also has a good job, buys most of our food, and is also good at cooking it. She never asks me to take her anywhere or spend money on her. I think I'm in it mostly for the bl0wjobs, though. She has serious skills.
 

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I'm 41 and my current gf is 46. She's insecure about her age and me having been with a lot of younger women, but that manifests itself by her wanting to have sex with me constantly. She sets her alarm early every morning so she can wake up and blow me before she goes to work. She has not missed a single morning with that trick, at least when she has slept at my place. We have sex every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day.

She also has a good job, buys most of our food, and is also good at cooking it. She never asks me to take her anywhere or spend money on her. I think I'm in it mostly for the bl0wjobs, though. She has serious skills.
****ing an older woman 2-3 times a day? mate Im younger than you but wish I could perform even half of what you do...I can do it once or twice with a <25 one
 

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"She doesn’t move in a herd."

This is the only accurate and relevant one. If she's like this because she's blown through all her friendships though.... Plus she runs in the "herd" of a thousand ghosts from her past.
^This^

Temporary plate or fwb at best. I'm 38 & my fwb is 44, no kids. It's pretty f*cking amazing what yrs of yoga does for the body. I'm still scratching my head. The whole having a bush is pretty weird as I haven't seen 1 in probably 20yrs. Red flags galore though so definitely not RL worthy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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